"I am looking for explanations that will help me build a conceptual understanding of macos UI development." it depends on your learning style of course, but if you like lecture / course-style learning, i highly recommend paul hegarty's CS193P, it will definitely give you the in-depth, conceptual explanations you're describing. while it is an iOS dev course (taught at stanford, lectures are freely offered online), the…
Personally, I'd skip Swift / SwiftUI until you have a decent understanding of the Objective-C frameworks underpinning the vast majority of the macOS/iOS SDKs.