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Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

#61
I walk my dog before and after (occasionally during) my working day - usually five hours per day five days per week. Exercise, fresh air, quiet with the odd chat to fellow walkers.

It makes working from home enjoyable and a bit more sociable. I do one day a week from a co-working space, too.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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I used to be the same way. Wake up at 5am, meditate, exercise, and shower before starting your day. Stop eating processed carbs and sugar. Get off the computer at 9pm and sleep at 10pm. Clean your room. Schedule sprints of work for yourself, drag yourself over to your chair, and force yourself to start typing anything. Talk to your friends more often. Set 1-3 large goals at the beginning of the day and explain to you…

This goal is too hard to achieve! It is like the 10x programmer, it is just too much to be a realistic goal. I mean, good for you if you can wake up every day at 5 am and meditate. But aside from the 0.0001% of people on the world that can do this, most people can't. This is a way of life which seems like living in a monastery to me. Totally unrealistic.

Neither getting up at 5am or daily meditation are all that rare or difficult. And if you take perfection out of the equation, as you should, then aiming to do them 80-90% of the time makes it even easier.

I’m a natural night owl, but I routinely (80-90% of the time) go to bed early and get up at 4am. It’s really not that hard.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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post #52

Without knowing anything specific, lets check the basics - Sleep: Do you sleep around 8 hours per night and shake that rhythm up sometimes (go party once a month or whatever to give you some change)? - Sport: You should definitively do something, like go running half an hour twice a week. - Diet: Not following anything specific doesn't say much ;-) I mean, when you say that, I would assume you are probably eating mor…

Re: therapist, years ago it was estimated that a good, listening friends has about the same effect as a good therapist. So maybe cheaper (if you can find one at all).

> it was estimated

Ah, well, then...

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

#66
You feel miserable. Why? Also, try getting a solid routine. An accountability buddy who you meet with every day at the same time. Perhaps you feel miserable because it is a battle every day, rather than a mindless routine. When you wake up, get up. Don't go back to bed. Get up and make coffee. You can always take a nap later, but eventually, you'll get used to waking up only once. Go watch the sun rise if you wake up too early. Trust that when you wake up, you should just get up.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

#67
Widen your horizons. It's tabu for some to mention but perhaps your lack of fulfillment is of a spiritual kind. I don't mean to become a born-again christian or a hippie, but if that's your thing that's fine too. I'm just saying there's more to life than making money in a pleasant and safe environment.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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post #52

Without knowing anything specific, lets check the basics - Sleep: Do you sleep around 8 hours per night and shake that rhythm up sometimes (go party once a month or whatever to give you some change)? - Sport: You should definitively do something, like go running half an hour twice a week. - Diet: Not following anything specific doesn't say much ;-) I mean, when you say that, I would assume you are probably eating mor…

Re: therapist, years ago it was estimated that a good, listening friends has about the same effect as a good therapist. So maybe cheaper (if you can find one at all).

If you can afford do both. Specialists have a bigger toolset with these things to help. Their advice is independent from a friend or family relationship. But hanging with them 1-2 hours every day as you might with a good friend can get expensive... Both types of support are useful in different ways.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

#69
Well, there is very little data here, but let's guess from it.

You say your job is easy, but feel miserably, so it looks like your body is telling you it needs something you are not providing him.

Let's review the basics: -Do you sleep well? -Do you eat well? -Do you exercise regularly? You answer that question, no. -Do you have friends, wife, partner or children? -Do you spend too much time in front of a computer? -Do you spend too much time sit down? -Do you see the light of the day every single day or work in the dark?

Normally someone will postpone a job that is tedious or hard or makes you suffer(mental). If that is not the case, odds are that it is just a physical thing.

When I started working at home I had to be in front of a computer 8-10 hours per day, but I could not be more than 1 or 2. So I bought a stool, put my screens at eye level while standing up and started going out in sunny Madrid every single day to exercise.

After one year of doing that(it took training of my muscles to be able to work standing up) I could work for more than 8 hours in front of a computer without issues.

There are things like the lymphatic system that needs movement of the body in order to work. If you do not move your body will alert you into stopping whatever you are doing to fix this issue first.

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