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> wish I felt more "accomplished" in how I used my time. Idk man I think a lot of people here would be proud to have knocked off even one of those things on that list. The lifestyle changes alone are huge accomplishments. I also wouldn’t downplay the significance of spending a little time doing nothing. Probably added some years to your life
This a thousand times! I've taken some years off work, but never three in a row: I don't think I'd manage it as well as you did.
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#532My husband. Financially we’re fine, because he wasn’t in tech anyway and made 1/4 of what I do. Emotionally I’m really starting to resent it (he is not on the “I sent out 1000 resumes” track, he’s made a lot of progress in EVE).
On the positive side, sending out 1k resumes is a complete waste of time. Ask me how I know.
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> who would you rather hire: someone who wow'd in an interview or someone with LinkedIn flair? Wrong question. This is not about the hiring stage. Who would I rather move on to a phone screen: someone with an empty or nonexistent linkedin profile, or someone with a profile which matches their resume and has many connections to other people who worked at the same companies? While I hate to have to say it is the latter…
Hence > anything past where you've worked on LinkedIn is a waste of time
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#534Thankfully I'm employed, but from what I've heard there pro diversity bias against hiring straight white males. Does that have any basis in anybody's personal experience?
Yes I've heard lots of weak people discussing a fear of competing in a wider talent pool and then crying about "bias" as an excuse rather than taking responsibility for their own results.
Do I have any more information on the subject than anyone else? No.
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#535First year was an intentional "sabbatical" after never taking longer than a 1 week long vacation in seven years of full time SWE.
Second year... Well, I've applied to probably around 500 jobs this year, from the smallest to the largest companies, and I've gotten ONE video call interview. And as much as I would want to thank that one VP Eng at that one company for even interviewing me, after the interviewer directly told me that I aligned with what they were looking to hire for the role, and that I would be scheduled for technical interviews the next week, I ended up *ghosted*. Not even a rejection email.
Of my IRL SWE friends, I know many like myself who have been laid off and can't find new work (it seems like the longer the gap gets, the more it self-reinforcingly leads employers to think you're damaged goods); I know others who have been laid off and found new work within a month or two; and I know a few who are continuing to climb the comp ladder at big saas corps, seemingly completely unaffected by the job market.
The strangest thing to me about this wave of SWE unemployment is that it seems to be totally violative of supply and demand. Yes, I know that all SWE workers aren't equal fungible goods, but I would have thought that there are tiers or specializations inside of which there can be some rough supply and demand. Yet, I haven't gotten any lowball job offers - just complete lack of interest.
For past context, I didn't even have to apply for my last 2 jobs - a technical leader at each company (CTO, Dir Eng, etc) reached out to me unsolicited after finding my resume on a job board.
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#536I'm coping by building a system to solve homelessness in general which I've concluded is impossible by getting a menial job and saving ("just get 2?" Logistics, I have answers for everything).
I'm guessing someone will eventually get me some freelance/contract work and that's how my situation will be resolved ($10k over a month would do). Just building online brands with innovative techniques and sharing results until that day. Yeehaw.
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In 2025 it basically means you're likely a bot/scammer. LinkedIn provides the social proof that at least you're a real person, with real business connections. It's sadly not optional.
any other not-optional sites to think about connecting with?
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#538It started with a maternity leave. Then after a year, I tried going back to my old job and it was a disaster, so I decided to delay it for a bit longer. Then COVID hit. Then I had another child. Then one day you realize, "has it really been 5 years since I stopped working?"
Coming back at that point felt impossible: I wanted a part time job, my skills were outdated and rusty - I didn't even bother applying anywhere, I wouldn't stand a chance. I started searching for alternatives: small freelance gigs, bounties, personal projects... None were a success.
This year I mustered the courage to start applying to jobs again, only to realize that my most pessimistic fears were totally falling short.
I haven't burned all my rope yet, but It's not looking great.
If you're wondering: the way I'm surviving financially is because my spouse does have a full-time job, so we adapted to live with that.
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That's almost only the USA you know
YCombinator is an American company, but beyond that you are “almost” correct. https://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/news-and-features/latest-news/deta...
Is that link about accessing your GP?
I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. Good luck going forward.