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Who decides which side should do the adapting?
Oh, that one's easy. You are entitled to no adaptation from others. Your reactions to their "errors" are your problem, and your responsibility, although of course you can choose to start a fight over whatever you want. On the other hand, if you do not adapt to them, sometimes they will choose to start a fight over it, or be offended, or whatever. As such, if you want to improve your social outcomes, consider allocati…
Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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> You presumably have a formal name: A B C D, with A and B being your two given names, C and D being your two surnames. Yes, that's right. That is my full legal name. > So what does it say on your ID? Your birth certificate if you have no ID? Same as my full legal name: A B C D. > Does your countries revenue service address you as "Dear A B", "Mr C D", "Dear A", "Mr D" or something else altogether? Well, there is no…
> > So what does it say on your ID? Your birth certificate if you have no ID? > Same as my full legal name: A B C D. Right, so your Firstname is A and your Lastname is D. There's no ambiguity there. You're sorted for those forms that ask for firstname/lastname, not for those forms that ask for given/family name.
You are offering your own unique technical solution to a cultural problem that has already been solved, and while I admire your confidence, I must explain why it is incorrect.
I don't have a "last name", I have two surnames. The notion of "last name" implicitly assumes that there is one and only one surname.
As I already hinted at, people in Spain customarily use their first surname as their "last name". That's why 90% of communications address me as A C, even while living in Canada.
It is my understanding that the same rule is used in all of Latin America, including Brazil.
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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If this is why a website or a form asks for it, and there is no way around it, better just ask for it directly ("How would you prefer to be addressed? He/him, she/her, or neutral?") instead of a choice of 25 historical titles.
I always choose the clergy titles! (Monarch ones are never available)
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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(PhD) Dr. is a funny one in the Anglosphere and also at least parts of continental Europe (and possibly elsewhere). It's sort of a big deal in academia and some percentage of other people feel pretty attached to the title. For others, the attitude is more it's just a degree and lots of people have advanced degrees that we don't go around using honorifics for.
> For others, the attitude is more it's just a degree Good for them. In reality, it's not just a degree, it's the final degree. It's the degree you start working towards only after you get just a degree.
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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>> "Avoid asking users for their title. It’s extra work for them and you’re asking them to potentially reveal their gender and marital status, which they may not want to do." I'm always a bit surprised when I see some e.g. tech conferences still insisting on title as a mandatory field (or really asking at all). It's not just the gender and the marital status but some people attach a lot of significance to all manner…
At least in Germany, titles are still rather important. I agree that it's silly but if you have a PhD you're very likely to put "Dr." on your doorbell name plate.
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
#516Funny part, now living in Taiwan, when the forms ask me for my "English Name", I never know it means "First Last" (which would be the opposite order for me of the original form), or merely "Name in Latin characters".
Names are hard.
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
#517Earlier quoted context omitted.
> You presumably have a formal name: A B C D, with A and B being your two given names, C and D being your two surnames. Yes, that's right. That is my full legal name. > So what does it say on your ID? Your birth certificate if you have no ID? Same as my full legal name: A B C D. > Does your countries revenue service address you as "Dear A B", "Mr C D", "Dear A", "Mr D" or something else altogether? Well, there is no…
> > So what does it say on your ID? Your birth certificate if you have no ID? > Same as my full legal name: A B C D. Right, so your Firstname is A and your Lastname is D. There's no ambiguity there. You're sorted for those forms that ask for firstname/lastname, not for those forms that ask for given/family name.
To take a famous example: the full name of Rafael Nadal is Rafael Nadal Parera: one given name and two surnames, with the first surname taking precedence.
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
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That assumption isn't valid. In some languages in order to say anything about anything you have to apply either the masculine or feminine form of the verbs and adjectives, so there's no way around picking one of the two, so if you don't know, you must guess or assume. And if we look at languages with three grammatical genders, for some of them the neutral option is exclusive to inanimate objects, and using these neut…
But aren't we talking about form fields? When would you absolutely need a gendered title from someone in a form field so that you could refer to them in the third person? In any case, I understand your point about there not being many options for gendered pronouns in some languages, but you're also assuming that there aren't movements to change that. French is a good example where even though its heavily gendered, th…
No, I explicitly did not mention pronouns, my post was about all the language groups where merely changing pronouns is barely scratching the surface as core grammar features rely on grammatical gender. Like, no offense intended, but French is not an example of a "heavily gendered language" - I'd consider French on the very low end of the grammatical gender complexity scale, where indeed suggestions such as yours might be plausible. For example, consider Hebrew or Slavic languages which have verbs and adjectives denoting the gender of the subject/object. Consider grammatical gender in Hindi or Welsh. And I'm not even talking about more complicated systems like you might see in Bantu languages.
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Do you? I only say my own name when I’m introducing myself to someone.
On my own, I use my own name and pronouns. Not ever said or thought something like " Toutouxc , what are you doing?"
Re: Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” when designing interfaces?
#520So first of all everyone has read "falsehoods programmers believe about names". And of course everyone knows we should just use "name" and that's it. Perhaps a greeting/displayname if we need to do "Hello $customer" in an email. But still. There are often hard requirements that are impossible to reconcile with the "just store one name" idea. As an example: you need to produce alphabetically sorted lists. It would rar…
Even sorting alphabetically sorted lists by last name differ in western cultures, in the case of particles in the last names. Some countries file “de Rohan”, “von Ruhr”, “van Rotterdam” and similar under “R”, others just under the first character of the string.
Anywhere I know van der Whatever would just be sorted on “v” but that only works because almost no one has such a last name.