Could it be that your over 30? There is a problem known as the multi-armed bandit problem[0]. The problem deals with situations where you have to chose between different options you could take, but you don't start off with full knowledge of the options. You can spend time learning the options (exploring) or you can spend time using the best option you already know of (exploit). Importantly, you can't do both at the s…
Is there a source or research around humans following this pattern?
https://www.amazon.com/Algorithms-to-Live-By-audiobook/dp/B0...
The wikipedia article also briefly mentions that it is observed in animals.