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Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#41
post #10

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Why do you think experiences are limited to mid twenties? What kind of experiences are you talking about

Probably parties, concerts, impromptu weekend trips, paying to crawl through mud for five miles, side hustles, short term relationships, and the drama involved with any of those. That stuff tends to die way down for most people in their 30s.

I personally found (34 here) that this cliche is either a pile of poop, or badly worded for what it actually means.

It's not that we don't do these things after 30 or even 40, it's how we do them (hint: more means, wiser/less stupid about it 'cause been there, done that).

Now there's a historic truth to the cliche, but let's not pretend this is 1960 still, not even 1990. As we near the 2020's, socially everybody may work (M+F), everybody may change diapers, everybody may get drunk/high even after 40. It's not frowned upon anymore to just live, so what do you know, people just go on about living their lives, whether in their twenties, thirties, eighties... "Living" includes drama, it's just the nature of it, and there's this kid inside all of us --but as you age you're just so much better at handling said drama, and turn it into no less memorable but much more comfortable stories.

Most incredible nights of my life? Twenties for sure, even late teens. But best nights? On average it's not even funny to compare: at 34 it's so much easier to feel good with oneself and with the world. Which makes me actually much more daring personally, with work (and outside-the-box thinking), with relationships (and quirks), with my very own self.

Just to widen the perspective beyond my own anecdotal experience, I wonder: why this change between 20th century and 21st century societies? You see, when you read people from some 2,000 years ago, you quickly realize that they shared the same thoughts, the same feelings, the same life stories. Funny people back then would probably be funny today, and you could hear Romans complaining about foreigners taking their jobs and changing their culture... The human being part of the equation didn't change.

What changed is organization, and that's a long talk but essentially I feel that as we gained freedom on an individual basis, we need less "general principles" to guide otherwise clueless peoples --and this is currently still changing fast as even the perimeter/mission of the state and governments is very much in question, from corporate/money influence over citizenry, to wiki and other leaks, passing by individual rights. On the other hand, we begin to observe what the human race really is like, how it behaves, when given the freedom to set its own way (at least in the western part of the world, but surely these days "social progress" is happening everywhere regardless of political/economic freedom).

It's 11:30 and I am now going to resume work after this early morning coffee. :}

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#42
post #41

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Probably parties, concerts, impromptu weekend trips, paying to crawl through mud for five miles, side hustles, short term relationships, and the drama involved with any of those. That stuff tends to die way down for most people in their 30s.

I personally found (34 here) that this cliche is either a pile of poop, or badly worded for what it actually means. It's not that we don't do these things after 30 or even 40, it's how we do them (hint: more means, wiser/less stupid about it 'cause been there, done that ). Now there's a historic truth to the cliche, but let's not pretend this is 1960 still, not even 1990. As we near the 2020's, socially everybody may…

I apparently struck a nerve, sorry. I'm 35 myself, and I'm more reflecting a job I had a few years ago at a game studio, where I was one of the oldest developers there (besides the manager), with everyone else being in their early to mid-twenties.

And I don't mean I didn't do any of the things I mentioned, hell, in just a couple of years of my 30s I've met and befriended more people than in my entire 20s due to an effort I made to go to meetups and become more comfortable in my own skin, and I was going through a phase where I was attending as many performances by stand-up comedians as I could, and I even went to a couple of EDM concerts that didn't even get started until midnight...but there wasn't really any drama.

Most shit that a lot of these guys talked about in the studio that they encountered, that seemed like such a BIG DEAL to them OH MY GOD CAN YOU BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT? A lot of posturing and acting like you're great because you talk about all this crazy shit that happened to you this week.

I guess what I'm trying to say is this stuff can happen to people at any age, it's just that once you hit your 30s it seems less important. You've seen a lot of it before, you're trying less hard to impress everyone, and you're not going to things just to say you went to them (usually).

So you're not as tuned into it, you probably go to less of these things naturally (because you're only doing it if you enjoy it, not so you can have a story to tell), and possibly you have something else in your life that you care about saving up money for instead (like possibly retirement, maybe a much larger trip, maybe starting your own business, maybe finally paying down some of that debt you accumulated throughout your 20s, trying to figure out how the hell you're going to afford a wedding and a honeymoon, how you're going to pay your child's medical bills, etc).

And yeah, 2000 years ago a lot of people had the same thoughts as today, not denying that, I've seen it myself, and I wish more people realized we're not actually all that unique and exceptional in history after all, besides some of the cool toys we get to play with.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#43

Alarm goes off at 6. I hit snooze 12 times until it's about 7. I half doze, half ruminate on why I can't just get out of bed at 6. The hour I steal from myself gives me immeasurable pleasure. Around 7 I make it down into the bathroom, where I check political news for about a half hour. I ruminate on how unhealthy my eating habits are. I take a shower, and get out of the house by 8. On the ride in, I try to use positi…

Fwiw coffee makes an enormous difference for me anxiety wise. The initial boost in energy and mild euphoria is not worth an evening full of anxiety and irritability for me personally. Yes, that's my experience in the evening even if I have coffee at 8am. Anyway just sharing in case anyone is struggling and looking for something to tweak.

Take theanine with your coffee. A ratio of 2:1 theanine to caffeine does wonders.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#44
post #41

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I personally found (34 here) that this cliche is either a pile of poop, or badly worded for what it actually means. It's not that we don't do these things after 30 or even 40, it's how we do them (hint: more means, wiser/less stupid about it 'cause been there, done that ). Now there's a historic truth to the cliche, but let's not pretend this is 1960 still, not even 1990. As we near the 2020's, socially everybody may…

I apparently struck a nerve, sorry. I'm 35 myself, and I'm more reflecting a job I had a few years ago at a game studio, where I was one of the oldest developers there (besides the manager), with everyone else being in their early to mid-twenties. And I don't mean I didn't do any of the things I mentioned, hell, in just a couple of years of my 30s I've met and befriended more people than in my entire 20s due to an ef…

No it wasn't a nerve, sorry if it came that way. I refrain from using smileys on forums but my post should have started with one :).

I very much agree with you and see what you mean, went through some of these things myself (the post-30 part). Most vividly I came back to university as a student in my late 20s/early 30s (here in France most students are 18-25, and I was with the 18-20 in class). I know what you mean about the posturing and everything. But that's the beauty of age, I could just hang with the 'normal' ones according to my perception, and ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ the others. Made some very good friends regardless of the decade gap.

Currently at 34 in my phase "starting my own business", reigniting a dream I've sorta had since I was 12.

Totally agree with your last sentence. In fact I find that the best entrepreunarial wisdom/advice may come from the first century AD, or from 1903, 1937, 2016... Because the toys changed (tools, really), but the function (organizing some process involving value for human beings) is ever the same. On a personal level it's equally true, I am personally an adept of Stoicism, which isn't exactly new, yet incredibly suited to our present time imvho.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#45
Wake up at five something, take a piss, shower and dress yourself.

No time for breakfast, throw intra and post-workout shakes into the bag and head to the gym with SO.

After training, we may sit down to eat something in a bakery depending on the time.

Go to work. Upon arriving fetch some decaff and prepare that stupid daily meeting. Middle manager crack.

Lunch break. Walk in the park for one hour while drinking a litre of milk, phoning relatives and listening to podcasts.

I get paid for browsing HN.

After work it's all me and SO time. We love cooking elaborated dinners and gossiping about our colleagues.

Videogames and technical books are the only computer related things I still do. I despise them so much I had to buy a PlayStation for gaming as touching a keyboard makes me anxious.

GitHub is your resume now.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#46

Alarm goes off at 6. I hit snooze 12 times until it's about 7. I half doze, half ruminate on why I can't just get out of bed at 6. The hour I steal from myself gives me immeasurable pleasure. Around 7 I make it down into the bathroom, where I check political news for about a half hour. I ruminate on how unhealthy my eating habits are. I take a shower, and get out of the house by 8. On the ride in, I try to use positi…

You are far from alone... Likely in the majority. Replace developer with any other type of job.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#47

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Fwiw coffee makes an enormous difference for me anxiety wise. The initial boost in energy and mild euphoria is not worth an evening full of anxiety and irritability for me personally. Yes, that's my experience in the evening even if I have coffee at 8am. Anyway just sharing in case anyone is struggling and looking for something to tweak.

Take theanine with your coffee. A ratio of 2:1 theanine to caffeine does wonders.

Thanks for the tip, I'll look into it and give it a shot.

That said, it's nice not relying on coffee everyday for a boost, though there are at least a couple days a week where I could really use it, esp after a night of unpleasant sleep.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#48
post #32

06:00 - woke up 06:05 - got out of bed 06:10 - dragged a comb across my head 06:15 - Found my way downstairs 06:20 - drank a cup 06:30 - looking up, I noticed I was late 06:32 - found my coat, and grabbed my hat 06:33 - made the bus in seconds flat ... 16:30 - Found my way upstairs and had a smoke 16:50 - Somebody spoke and I went into a dream

Similar to mine, tho I usually have my smoke at 16:20

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#49

Alarm goes off at 6. I hit snooze 12 times until it's about 7. I half doze, half ruminate on why I can't just get out of bed at 6. The hour I steal from myself gives me immeasurable pleasure. Around 7 I make it down into the bathroom, where I check political news for about a half hour. I ruminate on how unhealthy my eating habits are. I take a shower, and get out of the house by 8. On the ride in, I try to use positi…

Fwiw coffee makes an enormous difference for me anxiety wise. The initial boost in energy and mild euphoria is not worth an evening full of anxiety and irritability for me personally. Yes, that's my experience in the evening even if I have coffee at 8am. Anyway just sharing in case anyone is struggling and looking for something to tweak.

I love coffee and have lots of it. Because I want more I have started adding a little decaf to the mix to sort of thin it out. Works great and tastes good. I'm mixing the green beans then roasting, but there is no reason that pre-roasted couldn't have some mixed in. There is a lot of good stuff in coffee so don't beat yourself up too much.

Re: Ask HN: What is your morning routine?

#50
post #15

- Wake up at 430-5 (Used to use an alarm, now it is a natural thing. I am also asleep by 930pm and usually catch a couple of naps over the weekend). - Take my dog out, hit the restroom, have breakfast - Train on my bike for 1-1.5 hours - Try real hard to catch my bus at 735. I usually miss nowadays, So I hitch a ride with my wife at 845 to the bus stop. - reach by 915 or so. Coffee and coding. I try to get some codin…

Do you find going to bed at 930pm hurts your social life? That is by far the largest thing keeping me from the "early to bed, early to rise" lifestyle. I like going out with people, or generally engaging with others at night.

I'm going to pick that the answer is no, as having kids and sorting them out has the effect (on me and others I know) of hindering night time socialising and at the same time stopping you from wanting to go out at night.
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