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Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

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Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#31

What I am saying is not a solution to your problem but have you considered suing the organization that did not pay your dad for 7 months? It won't help him get a job but I think it is quite unfair that the organization which profited immensely from his hard unpaid labour should be allowed to walk away. I am assuming of course that being involved in a lawsuit would not lower is his prospects of finding a job.

It will, even if he was located in the US.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#32

What I am saying is not a solution to your problem but have you considered suing the organization that did not pay your dad for 7 months? It won't help him get a job but I think it is quite unfair that the organization which profited immensely from his hard unpaid labour should be allowed to walk away. I am assuming of course that being involved in a lawsuit would not lower is his prospects of finding a job.

It will, even if he was located in the US.

even if he is just trying to recoup unpaid wages? there are fairly strict laws in this country surrounding that. I understand how being in litigation with a previous employer would look bad to a potential new one but I'd like to believe there is at least a little leeway there.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#33

Earlier quoted context omitted.

It will, even if he was located in the US.

even if he is just trying to recoup unpaid wages? there are fairly strict laws in this country surrounding that. I understand how being in litigation with a previous employer would look bad to a potential new one but I'd like to believe there is at least a little leeway there.

Yes. It will hurt his employment status. Companies don't want to hire employees who are suing former employers. Not always fair, but it's because there are a TON of people who frivolously sue their employers.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#34

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The country is Bulgaria. His English is fluent. He has developed a project which requires funding, yet no one wants to fund, because of the unstable situation.

Please ask your dad to send me an email (or mail me directly). I will be back in Romania in early July, I could conceivably hop over to Bulgaria to talk this over in person. I've done a few other things like this with good results: http://jacquesmattheij.com/journeyman-project-trip-1-united-... And I'm doing a few more as we speak. My email address is jacques@mattheij.com

I just want you to know I teared up reading your post. I dont know the OP but I have gone through similar situation with my own father and am so grateful there are people like you trying to help total strangers.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#35

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The country is Bulgaria. His English is fluent. He has developed a project which requires funding, yet no one wants to fund, because of the unstable situation.

Please ask your dad to send me an email (or mail me directly). I will be back in Romania in early July, I could conceivably hop over to Bulgaria to talk this over in person. I've done a few other things like this with good results: http://jacquesmattheij.com/journeyman-project-trip-1-united-... And I'm doing a few more as we speak. My email address is jacques@mattheij.com

You're one of my favorite people on HN. FWIW.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#37
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I don't think your father need any help. You will just waste your time trying and there won't be any benefit for him. He is an adult. I assume, because he is a IT professional he has a good education. I bet he knows that there are countries where he can get a better pay job. But for his own reasons, he has decided not to pursue this endeavor. I bet he made a choice of staying where he is now consciously. Maybe it's n…

"Sorry Dad, a guy on the internet told me to be a dick and tell you it's all your fault"

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

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post #36

Bulgaria is in the European Union since 2007. Your dad is eligible to work in any of the 28 Member states without any restrictions. Why did you not consider this yet?

Because people have lives. You can't just pack up and leave normally speaking. Also, being from Romania or Bulgaria is not exactly treated as a preferential attribute when trying to locate work in other European countries. It shouldn't matter but it does.

So even if there are no legal restrictions there are plenty of barriers.

Re: Ask HN: How can i help my dad?

#40
post #36

Bulgaria is in the European Union since 2007. Your dad is eligible to work in any of the 28 Member states without any restrictions. Why did you not consider this yet?

Because people have lives. You can't just pack up and leave normally speaking. Also, being from Romania or Bulgaria is not exactly treated as a preferential attribute when trying to locate work in other European countries. It shouldn't matter but it does. So even if there are no legal restrictions there are plenty of barriers.

It's a total bullshit about barriers.

People from visa-required countries EASILY find a job in EU or the US if they want.

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