I always start the sentence with... "I know this is weird, but..." It helps me get to the actual point of direct confrontation, but by blaming it on myself it helps absorb some of the awkward. Truly though, I hate it when people touch my laptop's screen!
Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my laptop screen?
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#32Earlier quoted context omitted.
Let out a little scream like a madman, "aaaahhh! no touch screen!" Silliness works. Or my favorite: "Touching my computer is like touching my penis. Seriously."
That is definitly one to remember. And it is actually good advice, making a joke out of it will make the other person feel less bad.
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#33I always start the sentence with... "I know this is weird, but..." It helps me get to the actual point of direct confrontation, but by blaming it on myself it helps absorb some of the awkward. Truly though, I hate it when people touch my laptop's screen!
Let out a little scream like a madman, "aaaahhh! no touch screen!" Silliness works. Or my favorite: "Touching my computer is like touching my penis. Seriously."
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#34Wow I'm hearing tons of complicated ways to avoid direct conversation. If you pay several thousand dollars for a machine, I'm pretty sure you get to decide to gets to do what with it. If it is your companies screen, you are still responsible for it, so the same thing applies. Next time it happens, just politely explain how you feel. There's no need for the passive aggressive solutions that a few people are suggesting…
Re: Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my laptop screen?
#35Earlier quoted context omitted.
That is definitly one to remember. And it is actually good advice, making a joke out of it will make the other person feel less bad.
Unless they keep touching the screen. Then it could get awkward.
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#36Of course this is most likely very depending on the culture and place where do you live.
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#37I always start the sentence with... "I know this is weird, but..." It helps me get to the actual point of direct confrontation, but by blaming it on myself it helps absorb some of the awkward. Truly though, I hate it when people touch my laptop's screen!
Re: Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my laptop screen?
#38If you don't have the personality to tell them, just print out a small label that says "Please don't touch the screen" and tape it to your laptop.
Re: Ask HN: Trivial etiquette question - can he touch my laptop screen?
#39Wow I'm hearing tons of complicated ways to avoid direct conversation. If you pay several thousand dollars for a machine, I'm pretty sure you get to decide to gets to do what with it. If it is your companies screen, you are still responsible for it, so the same thing applies. Next time it happens, just politely explain how you feel. There's no need for the passive aggressive solutions that a few people are suggesting…
The reason people have all these passive aggressive solutions is because they feel kind of embarrassed that they have such an attachment to an inanimate object. It's like telling someone not to touch your baby. I know most people will claim that it's just the cost of the item, but in reality I think it's that they're addicted to that little window into the machine. I know I am.
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#40I think it's fine to touch the screen.