As for OKRs... they aren't well defined and subject to change at her discretion without notification.
Re: Ask HN: How do you manage your life: set goals, plan, manage time, etc.?
#31My wife tells me what she wants or doesn't want.
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As for OKRs... they aren't well defined and subject to change at her discretion without notification.
I figure the best approach is to first get an idea how I spend my time right now and then make plans based on that. I guess it's a little like calorie counting (without actually counting the calories, you are prone to under/over-estimating).
When I have an idea how I spend my time, that's where the kanban comes in - I can estimate how long something will take me vs how long it actually takes. That way I can stop beating myself for not achieving unrealistic goals and know when I'm slacking.
From there on, I expect it'll mostly be about managing constraints (do I have enough time/willpower to do X?) and building habits.