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I think you're receiving pushback in the comments because it comes off as though you think it's OK to be rude in the morning. Additionally, if you made someone cry I think most of us draw comparisons to similar situations we've seen where, generally, the person who thinks they're just being blunt is actually very offensive and usually the most sensitive to critique.
I don’t think it’s “ok” per se, but it’s something I’ve had to live with, as well as my family. I can honestly say that it’s not something I do intentionally, it’s as though my “social filter” is booting up and I just say the absolute first thing that pops into my head, with the wrong inflection to top it off. I’ve said some pretty fucked up things in the first 30 seconds of waking up. I own them, apologize for them,…
A) Your co-worker is more sensitive than anyone I've ever met B) You are expressing yourself much harsher than you think you are
Again, I don't know you but pattern-matching based on my experiences it's almost always B.