I'm willing to be that the same company wouldn't ask Microsoft or IBM to see the source code of the software they buy from them. So I'd start by wondering why they can't treat your software, too, as the proprietary black box it is. Is it because they're aware that you can't convincingly threaten them with litigation? Do they think you're too small to protect yourself effectively from the danger of IP theft? If that i…
With a startup I was working on, we managed to get meetings with the CEO of the world's largest fashion company and several others with $10b+ revenue. A universal issue, however, was that we were bootstrapped and lacked the funding to insure against their losses, which for them meant unchecked liability.