> this mid-sized town dream exists Of course, but you should figure out what specifically you're looking for beyond what you've described. Do you care about tax implications? Are you planning to rent or own a home? Do you have friends or family in any of these areas? If you haven't traveled much I'd recommend doing it. This is the most accurate map breaking down regions in the United States in my opinion: https://i.r…
How much do you care about: - climate - schools - transportation - proximity to a big city - red state / blue state / purple state - time zone Etc etc etc.
Be more specific in thinking about the details of what you want, along as many dimensions as possible.