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I quit mega tech co 1 over sexual harassment and commute after a few years there. Enjoyed being unemployed for about 6 months. Then got a job at “hit startup about to ipo. That job was good and extremely lucrative, but provided little fulfillment.

Quit and did my own thing for a year. That worked out pretty well, but one man team got old. Now been working at mega tech co 2, best job of my career. Comp doesn’t match the hot startup though.

Do it, nobody cares.

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After skimming half the thread and only seeing one view (DO IT! It’s GREAT!), I’m going to throw this out there: - You will have heavy selection bias here (people who did not succeed might be working at a crappier job and unable to comment at this moment) - You will also have confirmation bias among those who willingly quit (“of course it was the right move”) - You are asking a very unique set of people with very val…

OP is also asking people their experiences, but those experiences are informed by their local set of pros and cons. What I've encountered: 1. I've never had bigger improvements in my financial outcomes than when I said 'f-it' and pulled the ripcord 2. Doing so dropped my into a stresspit that was grinding me into a red paste, resulting eventually in being Riffed 3. Which let me find a job that, while not great, has g…

Personally on big decisions I set a date 2-4 weeks out to make a decision and let it gestate in my brain. I think I've only "pulled the ripcord" once in my life on a particularly malodorous company that I worked at after I was talked down to over my decision to refuse. to sign off on something. I felt it was a safety concern until I had taken the time to fix it and check it well. It caused some friction with a big client over a delay (a few weeks), but I didn't care because above all I'm going to do what is right and what I feel pride in. Never let anyone gaslight you ever; if they don't respect you then speak up and let them know that shit is not allowed. Sure you may get fired but I guarantee you will regret not doing it for forever. Probably I got thrown off a few athletic teams in high school :)

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

#243
fucking great

removed myself from an incredibly toxic environment. the relief was incredible.

I then landed my first job in my new field and loved it.

10/10 would recommend to anyone (providing you have at least a few months runway of personal funds)

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

#244
I quit a job in defense around October of 2019 then COVID hit so I took a job at another defense company. I quit that job around June of this year and I'm still looking. I enjoy the time off but I'd really like to get back to work, every company that I apply to seems to take their sweet time recruiting.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

#245
My former senior developer was an incredibly competent nodejs dev and a great mentor. He left our company because management wouldn't really respect his opinions because he'd only been with us for 3 years when others had been for 20. The company he moved to was a fintech startup that worked him insanely hard but again didn't give him much respect or agency over what he was building. Then the pandemic hit and they reduced his pay, so he left that job without anything lined up.

He ended up in a 6 month job search, and when he finally got a job it was in a role no more senior than either of the 2 he had just left. Those 6 months were pretty grueling for him, and I'm sure a lot of the reason it took so long was because it was hard to find a job in the pandemic, but when you're trying to find a job and failing to, it wears on your self esteem and your soul, in ways that compound the difficulty of finding the job. And realistically, 6 months isn't even that long when it could've become 1 or 2 years.

That said, I became insanely burnt out at my job after he left and kept telling him that I was going to quit with nothing lined up. He just kept telling me it would be the stupidest mistake for me to do that and for my situation (still early in my career, have some savings but not a ton, some minor family-related issues going on) he was definitely right. I did work through the burn-out, though I may have permanently lost some enthusiasm for software development because of it. Or possibly I'm just still burnt out.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

#246
I was terminated after asking for a raise and better working conditions. It's only been a few weeks but I've been focusing on health and hobbies. I plan on traveling for a few months while looking for a better opportunity to secure my finances again.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

#247

I've done this 3 times in my 8 year career so far. I pretty much leave every job this way. I like to take a few months between jobs to do my own thing and take a break. If you are financially stable enough and are in a spot in your career where you don't think you'll need to worry about getting another job too much. DO IT. Looking back at the last 8 years, those periods off are the periods I remember the most. One ti…

Big tech companies rarely have a problem pushing a start date a few months in the future. At my last positions at G and Snap, HR had no problem accommodating my request that I not start until about 5 months after my interview. I was just upfront and told them that for some personal reasons, I'd be taking an extended break between positions, and wasn't interested in interviewing unless they could promise me a start da…

Good to know, I've mostly worked at startups/smaller companies so it's been a little less flexible.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

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post #87

After skimming half the thread and only seeing one view (DO IT! It’s GREAT!), I’m going to throw this out there: - You will have heavy selection bias here (people who did not succeed might be working at a crappier job and unable to comment at this moment) - You will also have confirmation bias among those who willingly quit (“of course it was the right move”) - You are asking a very unique set of people with very val…

It's impossible to answer the question for someone else, you have to address things like, what are my real values and priorities in life, not just work.

But some lessons learned. Manage your money carefully so you're not always in a inflexible spot, and manage your stress levels carefully. Pay attention to what is affecting you and why, and be good/take care of yourself emotionally so you're not always in stress/reactive mode.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs without anything planned. How did it go?

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post #87

After skimming half the thread and only seeing one view (DO IT! It’s GREAT!), I’m going to throw this out there: - You will have heavy selection bias here (people who did not succeed might be working at a crappier job and unable to comment at this moment) - You will also have confirmation bias among those who willingly quit (“of course it was the right move”) - You are asking a very unique set of people with very val…

>Quitting to do your own thing, as long as you show employers why you did it in a year or two, shouldn’t be a detriment for getting rehired. That said, hiring managers may question if you’d quit again in a year (depending on your past employment tenure)… It shouldn't be a detriment for getting rehired, period. If you are qualified for a role and pass an interview bar, there is no reason a potential employer should ca…

Hiring manager here.

Knowledge has a half life. If you have taken 6 months off, and have an interesting story, this is not a big deal. (For example, I took 8 months off to live in Istanbul. I had two interviews and two offers when coming back, one of which was completely outside my network.)

However, I had also just taken a month to do a functional course, and had worked half-heartedly on a startup that went nowhere. I had a story.

The longer you take off, the more of a story you will need, even if that's "in the last 3 months, I built a small toy to get myself reacquainted with React and Python" even if this is a Rails omakase shop.

Or, that story may be something completely different. All I care about is "can you hit the ground running?"

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post #67

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Practical question: if you're in the US, how do you deal with health insurance?

ACA (ObamaCare) is available. Your monthly cost for top tier coverage can be as low as ~$5 a month for a family of 4. The qualifying income cap is based on you anticipated "Modified Adjusted Gross Income". They don't count assets. This means that if you may have losses that bring your income for the year down to the income limits, then you can honestly say that and get subsidies. If you currently don't have any incom…

Thanks for the very informative answer!
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