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Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

#242
Thanks for posting this. The mere fact that you're asking here tells me that you've already thought about this more than most would. I agree with others saying based on your details it's completely the right thing to go after 6 months and seeing no desire to change how things are done.

Normally I would say that this is a problem owned by the senior devs already there. In this new age of "Remote first company", I suspect that it has more to do with the way the company was expected to operate from the outset. The leadership didn't hire senior enough people to tell the difference between good/bad and what was going to cost them for the duration of the company. It doesn't help that the devs are doubling-down on it though--doing what they're paid to do is another way of looking at that. It sucks, leave.

A good thought experiment is if you were (one of) the first senior dev hired, would leadership be happy with how long you were taking to make good choices and do things in an efficient (in the long term) way? If the answer is "no", then the company was doomed before any devs were hired.

Another question is how do we find out before joining? "I'll sign an NDA, show me your code"? If I'm seriously considering joining I'd like to spend a half (or full) day pairing with someone senior at the company on real development in-progress.

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

#243
post #240

Earlier quoted context omitted.

My point is that seniority implies a certain level of professionalism. If you're getting burned out you're not at that level.

The extension of your worldview is that a General in the military can't get PTSD because they're so professional.

I think if a general had bad enough PTSD that it was negatively impacting their day-to-day job performance they would be demoted from being a general.

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

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post #145

Just leave. It's the professional thing to do, if you can sustain yourself. In 2012 I've left my hometown and went to the other side of my country to work at a startup. Within 20 days I left because the situation was critical. I was already feeling like I should leave on the second week, but decided to wait just to break-even from my moving expenses. It was e-commerce startup where the team lead / project manager was…

> Just leave. Not a good idea for the OP to leave without having another job to start. The OP only found this job after a long period of job searching. Having a large unexplained resume gap followed by a short 6-month employment followed by another gap is the type of pattern that starts to scare hiring managers. Start the job search, but don’t just leave until you have something else to go to. Avoid introducing anoth…

> unexplained resume gap

Resume gaps shouldn't have to be explained. If someone thinks you're a bad hire because you don't dedicate every moment of your life to working, they are probably not someone you want to work for anyways.

> a short 6-month employment followed by another gap is the type of pattern that starts to scare hiring managers.

Q: "Why were you only there for 6 months?" A: "It wasn't a good fit because x y z"

If someone is scared of that, then they are a crap hiring manager.

Demonizing people for taking time off of work or for not sticking around in a work environment that not good for them is bs that needs to stop.

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

#245

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The forces behind burnout don't decrease just by operating as a senior.

My point is that seniority implies a certain level of professionalism. If you're getting burned out you're not at that level.

I don't think that burnout is a function of seniority or lack thereof.

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

#248
Start working on your plan B - another job, a break, contracting, whatever - and leave.

I just did it a few months ago. I worked with a company for 4+ months, figured out how much of a mess everything was, and - most importantly - found that everyone was unhappy but unwilling to change.

The secret is that MANY things are broken in MOST companies at any given moment. The things (people, processes, practices, tools, etc) that worked last week may not work this week as your team, tech, market, goals, and path change. It gets worse the more any of those things change.

The real questions to answer are:

a) do people understand things are broken? and

b) are they willing & able to change to make things better?

The answer to a) is WAY less important than the answer to b)

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

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In Germany you have a probationary period of 6 months where both sides can give notice of 2 weeks without having to give a reason. The probationary period is really there to make sure that you fit the organization and that the organization fits you. It is not usual that people don't make it through the probationary period, but it happens. If you know 5 months into a job that it is not for you and won't work out, then…

Just to add a bit of info: German businesses typically have a 3 month notice period in both directions (though I've seen 6 months). The probation period lets either you or the employer end the employment without a fuss.

This means that it's harder to get a loan or find an apartment until you're over that period. After that, you're golden.

https://allaboutberlin.com/guides/find-a-job-in-berlin#the-p...

Re: Ask HN: Is it unprofessional to leave a new job where everything is a mess?

#250

Professionalism doesn't even come into it. You're under no obligation whatsoever to even tell them why you're leaving but if you do, you're doing them a favour. If they know what's good for them they'll have exit interviews but I doubt that's a thing they do if they're not willing to hear you out or fix things when you're actively working for them.

Never tell why you leave, only if you want a bad reference letter.
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