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Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

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"Lazy" is just another way of saying that you're not doing something somebody else thinks you should be doing. Nobody is lazy at playing video games or eating a favorite food. If you like doing it, you do it. You can't be lazy. You can only be lazy in some kind of context where you or others judge you and find you wanting. So two pieces of advice. First, stop judging so much. Do what you love doing and don't feel the…

> Nobody is lazy at playing video games or eating a favorite food. I cannot disagree more. You can be lazy about something that brings enjoyment. Laziness is stagnation without regard for enjoyment or perceptions. In other words it is the opposite of ambition or progression. For example you can enjoy playing video games and yet become lazy about it through a lack of effort in that a decline of related goals does not…

The way I view it, Daniel's point was to focus less on what other people expect of you, and to think less in ways like 'will this help me progress in my career'. Both are examples of extrinsic motivation.

Instead, reframing your goals in terms of serving an intrinsic goal (e.g. 'I do this because it is interesting', or 'I do this because it helps my community') has been shown experimentally to improve longer term persistence at achieving those goals [0].

[0] https://lirias.kuleuven.be/retrieve/517626

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#222
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"Lazy" is just another way of saying that you're not doing something somebody else thinks you should be doing. Nobody is lazy at playing video games or eating a favorite food. If you like doing it, you do it. You can't be lazy. You can only be lazy in some kind of context where you or others judge you and find you wanting. So two pieces of advice. First, stop judging so much. Do what you love doing and don't feel the…

> If you like doing it, you do it. This attitude seems to overlook that there can be a tension between present and future fulfilment. There are things you can do (or avoid doing) now that will make your life a lot less enjoyable later on. Activities that 'make you a better person over time' often require effort, discomfort, or sacrifice of some kind in the present (exercising, studying, therapy, etc...). I don't thin…

IMHO, this relates to your own personal way of attributing value.

Future happiness holds more value for you personally for whatever reason - this is great! i am happy for you.

an alternative view point which is also sometimes correct is that future happiness holds zero value as you may never get it.

I don't know whats really going on but i basically agree that laziness is not a thing. whether its explained by different weighting of future values or different weighting of the value of doing nothing (also highly rewarding) i think is a moot point.

The advice given by the original comment to me holds true regardless. Also the way it is stated is especially important (as i think anyone who has benefited from such advice would see): step 1: beating yourself up doesn't work, you need a logical argument against that to help your brain adjust, step 2: find a way into doing things without a set end goal in mind, this is to learn the pleasure of doing the thing, not getting to the goal.. that way you are triggering different value / reward calculations in the brain.

Please note i firmly believe there is no one explanation that will work for everyone, you have to factor in their view points and biases while finding the specific language that will fire the right neurons for that person... we are all hear to share perspectives in the hope that they are of value to someone else.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#223
> I grew up in a high pressure environment, where a lot is expected from you.

Talk to a therapist. You should find out which experiences from the past trigger your “laziness”. The past high pressure situations trigger a pattern in you. Discover the pattern, you’ll be able to understand why certain tasks cause the anxiety. Once you know where it comes from and why it happens, you can overcome that. Sometimes just a simple talk with a therapist can help, no need for pills.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#224
Adderall

Sorry, had to crack the joke.

On a serious note, my answer would be: take an individualized approach. Here are some examples:

- Was your motivation damaged by decades of forced boring school? You need time to relearn enjoyment of learning

- Are you a nihilist? Seek therapy and a real reason to live with passion.

- Are you depressed, PTSD, etc? Seek help.

- Are you unhealthy? Change it.

- Do you genuinely have ADD or something that neurologically explains it? Seek help.

- Are your friends unmotivated like you? Seek different friends.

- Do you sleep poorly? Improve that.

- Do you have an addiction that messes your dopamine (or NE, 5-HT) levels (porn, cocaine, etc)? Get help.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

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post #221

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> Nobody is lazy at playing video games or eating a favorite food. I cannot disagree more. You can be lazy about something that brings enjoyment. Laziness is stagnation without regard for enjoyment or perceptions. In other words it is the opposite of ambition or progression. For example you can enjoy playing video games and yet become lazy about it through a lack of effort in that a decline of related goals does not…

The way I view it, Daniel's point was to focus less on what other people expect of you, and to think less in ways like 'will this help me progress in my career'. Both are examples of extrinsic motivation. Instead, reframing your goals in terms of serving an intrinsic goal (e.g. 'I do this because it is interesting', or 'I do this because it helps my community') has been shown experimentally to improve longer term per…

They shifted the conversation away from mental laziness to conformity and then provided a remedy that cures neither serving as a distraction from the subject at hand.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conformity

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#226

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Someone doesn’t have to have ADHD to shirk from hard problems. Expecting technical/intellectual problems to be easy to solve is something that is drilled into most people by the school system, which rarely if ever present problems that take more than a few minutes to solve, and pretty much never expect students to try tackling problems that require weeks of effort. The result is that when many people encounter a hard…

> There is probably an influence from inherent personality differences, but I would speculate that building up stamina for tackling hard problems comes down substantially to practice. I was diagnosed with ADHD my senior year of college. Before that, the mindset you're advocating got close to breaking me.

I completely agree, as someone who was diagnosed at about the same time in my life. It was one of the best and worst days in my life the first time I took medication: best because a mental fog had lifted for the first time ever, worst because how different would my life be if I'd been diagnosed sooner?

Fifteen years later, I am still stably medicated, and life is what I had always wanted it to be: productive and fulfilling. I hope anyone reading this does not let a stigma of medication bar them from talking to somebody about it if they've faced years of frustration over not being able to do what others seem to do easily: just getting shit done.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#227
> may have become an issue because I grew up in a high pressure environment, where a lot is expected from you

Interestingly, some of the most successful people I've encountered seemed to be operating out of expectation from various people - family, peers etc. I guess different people react differently. And there's also the question of happiness. I knew a shit hot young lawyer who, having worked extremely hard non-stop from her early teens to her late twenties decided all she really wanted to do was live in the home counties and have children, rather than sacrifice pretty much every waking hour in exchange for >£100k pa.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#228

I'm going to guess that you're going to get more mileage out of cutting something out of your life than in adopting yet another mindset, habit, drug or whatever. Some possible things that might work: * youtube/netflix * social media * news * sugar * video games These are the things your brain goes towards automatically as an easier "win" than in facing the harder problem. Cutting them out will leave room for you to f…

It's interesting you mention sugar. There's also a biological component here--diet plays a huge role in how your brain works.

For example, on a ketogenic diet (no sugar and limited carbs) your brain produces ketones and many people report far less lethargy.

Sugar helps in the short-term, but if you get past the keto-flu, you no longer become glycogen dependent. Long-term ketogenic diets are now finally being studied, with many people reporting tremendous success.

Psychiatrists love giving you sugar and drugs though. Any drugs, any sugar!

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#230
Maybe it's not clear to you the possible reward you can get from exploring your idea, solving the problem, delivering what is expected etc. So the task itself becomes meaningless or purposeless. I think this topic has a lot of touchpoints with procrastination, even though they are different things.
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