Here's a few of the highlights for me:
1. It makes me want to write more tests.
In other languages, I always defaulted to opening up a terminal to quickly hammer out something before implementing it and usually came back to the tests as an after thought. Sure with an IDE integration you can highlight and execute just the test you're looking at, but in many cases I found it clunky.
With Elixir, the entire test suite executes so fast that it's easier and faster to just work with the tests than hammer through things in the console.
For the situation where the console works better, you can copy the iex lines above your method as a code comment and that will run as a test when you run your test suite (so tests as documentation essentially).
Lastly on the test front, the assert_value library is incredibly helpful for hammering out first versions of unit tests.
2. After taking the Coding Gnome course from Dave Thomas, I love the approach to code structure.
Dave emphasizes thinking of the functionality of your application independently from the interfaces which access it. For example, the HTTP layer, a REST API, a Websocket layer, the command line, and an IEX terminal are all different interfaces.
Thinking of my code that way and developing around an internal API rather than doing something like REST first testing, etc has made things a lot cleaner for me. I'm also a big fan of the defdelegate approach for that internal API layer.
The libraries I've needed so far have been really solid, but I generally don't pull in libraries unless I really need them anyway. If I'm connecting to an API, I'd rather write the connections directly in most cases as I need them rather than pull in an API library directly for it. Gives me more control and better understanding of things and I like that. YMMV.
3. Tooling wise, VSCode has been great for me.
I've considered reaching for IntelliJ with the Elixir plugin, but as it stands right now I'm very happy with VSCode. It's been a great experience and all that I need on a day to day basis.
There's a lot more to say than that, but these are my biggest things that I'm liking so far.