This is a huge space to get into. I’m on my fourth year doing an outdoor light show. My personal preference is 12v ws2811 bullet-style voltage-regulated nodes. They’re extendable, individual nodes on a strand are replaceable if you’re willing to do some cutting and crimping. I like the 12v because you can go for longer strands without losing colors from voltage drop. Regulated over a resistive voltage divider = less…
I know programming but only very rudimentary hardware, how difficult is this to do? Are there guides?
In terms of making custom sequences for lights, my go to is Xlights - an Open source project that allows you to create layouts, and build sequences.