Ask HN: How to Overcome the Trough of Sorrow?

What you really should strive for is a remote job that lets you work from anywhere and pays you well, ideally contributing to something fulfilling in life.

Entrepreneurship culture these days is toxic and the opposite of the “ideal” life.

It is actually something I'm really concerned about and have put a lot of thought into. But yes, I do think it will. I don't know how to solve the momentum or "gravitational" problem, or whatever we want to call the fact that having more resources makes it easier to get more resources. But I think if you look at the long term trend, we have always seen human lives improve. But this is not always true for short term trends and the swings can be rough. It is not a smooth function, it has a lot of noise.

I think post scarcity is one of the most important problems we can be working on. But there's a lot more than technology to get there. I want a lot more people thinking about how to transition to a post scarce society. What do we do when say 10% of people cannot be employed because you've automated their jobs (and no replacement. Not to mention replacement is still usually rough)? It will take a complete restructuring of our economic systems, the way we measure value of people, and so much more. But I don't think this should stop us. I want to get people thinking about this before we have to solve it with blood. But I'm only one person. This will happen with or without me. With me, at least I can help steer the ship.

Fundamentally I think these issues are about being short sighted. A lot is about how we measure and compare, missing all the nuances and interactions. How alignment drifts and there's never perfect alignment. I think even the rich benefit from the poor living better lives, but I think this is not obvious if you live in a world where you're the main character.

It is a bet. I can't predict the future and either way is a bet. We live in a causal universe, there is no such thing as inaction. But I think the potential benefits are worth the risks. We can make humans more free than any human of any status has ever been in all of history. More free than the post powerful and richest of kings. But you are correct to note that this same power can be used to for a novel form of abuse. But it is hard to say if this will be worse off as much of human (historical) life has been extremely tragic. I have faith in people that they will fight tooth and nail to go back. But I'm unsure if we have the foresight to do things the "right" way. We definitely have the capacity, but it seems we waste a lot of our potential getting caught up in the moment.

Edit: I listen to a lot of GSY!BE and F#A#∞ is my favorite album, so that line hit hard.

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> but I find a bitter rage grows in me each day against the owners of the means of production.

I feel this too, but I think we must be careful. It is easy to let this feeling metastasize and corrupt. For it to accumulate in the culture and misalign from what caused the feelings in the first place. And when that happens, we may have killed the beast but to only create a new one. So rage against __the__ machine, but be careful that this does not cause you to hate all machines nor to replace one devil with another. For the path to hell is paved with good intentions, not because of any ill will or malice, but because the divine path is treacherous and deceptive. Little mistakes easily lead us astray because we are navigating an incredibly complex maze. So do not fear the man that preaches good and evil, fear the man who preaches simplicity. For that's what our little minds want, and will make us true believers. No malice needed, only laziness.

So do not go gentle into that good night. Rage against the dying light. But remember that the light never dies. Nor does the darkness.

The sheer number of improbable events almost seemed like the universe itself was working against me. I felt a realization that I was paying for the evil choices I made. Asking God, if He’s real, for a sign about that led to me experiencing an actual miracle that turned my beliefs on their head. I professed Jesus Christ and everything changed. My PTSD and night terrors were cured, too.

The new foundation helped. Now, I know God made us to love Him first in a relationship, reflect His character, and love each other as ourselves. Our own evils toward God and each other incur His wrath. The very evils in the Bible that wrecked countries are what happen today. Yet, I know God loved us enough to take flesh as Jesus Christ, set a perfect example, die for our sins so we can be forgiven, and dwells in us. He has an eternal future of love, joy, and peace for all who follow Him. I put more on GetHisWord.com with proof.

With that foundation, I can answer your question. Those who truly believe in Christ receive God’s Spirit who grants an inner peace and joy that’s always there. We also know Rom. 8:28 says He works all things for our good. Our suffering builds character. Every good act toward God and others is rewarded later but often blessed now, too. We can also give people the Gospel, the gift we’re given, in our communities, work, etc. Then, they’re saved from wrath, receive God’s peace, and become instruments of His will.

Last year was one of my hardest. Yet, I definitely had more peace and purpose than many others with more material things. Also, God answers our prayers in specific, noticeable ways which are awesome to watch. He even healed one person’s kid we prayed for. I’m so grateful for this new life.