If you got into this industry because of passion, this industry is going to be a real brainf**** and there's nothing you can do about it.
Just do it as a hobby and maybe work in marketing or sales where you just bullshit all day and don't have to pretend otherwise.
Or you can do what I did and just teach people how to code. I enjoy teaching young people how to code because they're always looking for the simplest way to get maximum results and this is precisely the mindset that is required to be a good software engineer.
I don't know why people lose this mindset over time, it's absolutely essential.