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Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by jot »

Not quite outside of work but separate from my clients and employers. I have found it at my Coworking space.

Sadly, in my experience, few Coworking spaces provide the things good communities provide.

I recommend trying all the Coworking spaces near you until you find the one that feels right.

Like good coffee shops, it’s usually the ones that aren’t part of a chain that are best. High-end interior design, flashy marketing and all the amenities you can imagine aren’t the things that matter.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by antisthenes »

Other dog owners/trainers. Neighbors. Anything close by really.

I don't really have the time to venture far from the house for hobbies, so most of mine revolve around dogs/gardening and electronics tinkering that I do inside the house.

And obviously hanging out with long time friends.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by trbleclef »

Sounds like you are looking for your local community chorus! Often no experience required.

The Choruses tab here[1] is a good place to start. This[2] may be a little outdated. Or just Google.

[1] https://chorusamerica.org/member_directory

[2] https://www.singers.com/lists/choral-groups/

a PSA from HN's lurking choral director

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by geocrasher »

You asked, so I'll tell you: My local Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses. https://jw.org.

I've never been happier in my life, and the sense of purpose, community, and security has never been higher. I won't espouse any religious teachings here, that's what the link above is for should you choose to visit it.

The most amazing part is that it's genuine and trustworthy. It's all made of imperfect humans to be sure, but you'll be hard pressed to find more trustworthy people who show a sincere genuine interest and truly care.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by ashton314 »

andreynering wrote: post #3

The church is like a second family for me. I made so many great friends there! Of course it will not be for everyone, but if you are open to it you can try.

+1 for this. No church is perfect, but my experience is that church is a place where I can go to gather with people from diverse backgrounds, perspectives, and needs and come together on some common points: we need more than ourselves to make it through life, we need to be kinder, and we should serve each other.

I have seen my congregation rally around new parents, people with mental health conditions, and other such common struggles. Serving others is a great way to feel that you are part of a community. Church can be a great framework for that kind of thing.

Re: Ask HN: Where have you found community outside of work?

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Post by joe_hills »

Local weekly pinball tournaments are an amazing way to meet folks and hang out in a low-pressure social environment.

Since the rounds of the tournament are randomized groups of four, every round is a chance to introduce yourself to three other players and learn each others' names. If you come back regularly, you'll start to recognize and be recognized by the other regulars. Everyone gets to know each other better at a natural and unforced pace.

I've been playing every Wednesday night for about a year, and I like it so much that I'm shifting my work schedule so I can join the same local regulars for a Thursday night tournament at a different arcade too.

I really hope you have the chance to give it a try!

You can find tournaments in your area at: https://www.ifpapinball.com/calendar/#

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