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Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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No. One important aspect of the book that doesn't appear in the title is: People who get really good at something useful, also enjoy their work a lot more. The public view is often that passion leads to success. But the book argues that in many cases it is actually the other way around.

That's a big part of my problem - as a generalist I know many things, but am not an expert on anything specific. Taking on a focused role leads to disappointment and loss of self esteem.

As a generalist, you can become an expert in one thing after another as you apply your generic expertise and ability to learn to a broad range of areas and problems over time.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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For guidance on this topic, I’d recommend the book “Deep Work” by Cal Newport. I think the relevant part of the book would advise that loving what you do requires sticking with it long enough to develop mastery; and the opposite pattern of bouncing between topics “looking for passion” is a recipe for mediocrity and dissatisfaction (I’m probably overstating his case a bit). But the whole book is great!

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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Nobody forces you to stick to one kind of role. It's okay to try a couple of roles.

I love (computer) science research and (software systems) development, so that's what I have been enjoying since age 11. Over three decades on, I'm a professor of artificial intelligence, which gives me maximum freedom to play around and invent new techniques. Among other things, I get paid to read HN, write papers and software, and teach the next generation some interesting topics like machine learning.

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“Part of growing older is mourning the person you could have been.” One of the wisest and most succinct things I’ve read on this site.

Be careful with this one. If you could transport yourself back in time to each of the key decisions you made as a younger you, you would likely realize that in most cases, you made the best decision you could with the information and resources you had at the time. Learn from it, and then apply what you can for the benefit of older you. Regret is pernicious.

Yeah, I don't buy it either. But you said it more eloquently than what I could.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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For guidance on this topic, I’d recommend the book “Deep Work” by Cal Newport. I think the relevant part of the book would advise that loving what you do requires sticking with it long enough to develop mastery; and the opposite pattern of bouncing between topics “looking for passion” is a recipe for mediocrity and dissatisfaction (I’m probably overstating his case a bit). But the whole book is great!

It was the "so good they can't ignore you" book of his.

With that said, both books are excellent. In my opinion "so good they can't ignore you" explains why you should want to become very good in something, and the "deep work" explains how to become good in something.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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I have no advice on how to find a professional field that you can fall in love with, as I pretty much fell in love with mine (mobile dev) on the first go (back in '09).

Just realize that being love with something doesn't mean it is always blissful. I love my partner to a deeper degree than I do with any other person (we have no kids), yet we do sometimes fight and don't get along.

It is the same with any job or profession. Realize this and I think you might become more content with what you do.

Outside of an professional setting I must say that after getting my self an espresso machine two years ago I've fallen in love with making and tweaking my shots.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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We need to talk money going in, or someone is wasting my time. "Don't be showing up on the Ferrari dealership forecourt with a Honda budget in your pocket." I don't generally deal with recruiters anymore. Haven't had a job through a recruiter in a long time. My last round of looking for a job (5+ months ago) I had an interview where I confirmed that the compensation would be satisfactory. Did the interview, got an of…

I think up until recently I had a different mentality than what you're describing, where pay was second, but the type of work was more important. I always assumed that so long as I was satisfied with the projects, coworkers, and company/organization was something I could stand behind, pay and compensation would follow. As I got older and more "adult" responsibilities started coming (mortgage, family planning), econom…

Oh, don't get me wrong, I have worked on interesting things with entrepreneurs, without pay, for months at a time. Or even asked for a certain amount, and then never took any money. And I have also worked on interesting problems for far less than what even a mid-level engineer could earn at a decent company.

It isn't always about the pay, but it is often about weeding out the people who would take advantage. There is cheap, and there is poor, and for some parts of my career I have confused the two.

Much like I won't pay for something just because it is expensive, but I will often pay for the more expensive option rather than the cheaper one. Expensive doesn't always mean good, but it is a differentiator and a signalling mechanism.

I use compensation as a litmus test to determine if someone is trying to take advantage of me. If the company is trying to low-ball me, that means to me, not that they are financially cheap (though some are, and you can smell them from as far away as the dog's dinner from two nights ago), but that they believe me to be naive and exploitable. I might be an immigrant, but it doesn't mean that I stepped off the boat yesterday.

Out of all the benefits and bonuses and culture that a company has, all of which can be taken away or changed in an eye blink (Activision's purchase of Blizzard for instance) for a variety of reasons, base compensation is exceptionally hard to hand wave away. Companies that don't pay well usually have crap culture, lousy benefits and work-life balance that truly sucks. Again, for me, compensation is a signalling mechanism.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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I don't think I have or am any of those things.

Looking at your resume, I find it hard to believe that you're not really good at something.

Propaganda and lies.

Propaganda.

And lies.

And maybe a little bit of marketing. But I repeat myself.

Re: Ask HN: Have you found something you love to do? If yes how?

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I love to write code, I love to ship products and I love to build businesses. But what I really love, what drives me, is solving interesting problems. That's my entire career. Solve interesting problems. "We're building a web2.0 exercise tracking..." No! "We're putting health records on the block..." Nein! "We're improving how people buy insuran..." Non! "We're creating a mobile app to submit expens..." Nee! "We're b…

Would you agree that the path should be a SaaS that keeps you in a position to keep a flow of new and intriguing work/individuals in tech in your vicinity?

I am not sure I understand the question, sorry.
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