This is something I have said before: Some people just stop working after a few months. And I don't think they mean to, I just think they learn helplessness and don't do any work anymore. Motivation can be difficult to maintain.
I know someone who is "leading" an internal initiative I got STUCK on currently who is like that. Nice guy, talks a good game, but when the rubber meets the road, he has not delivered in any capacity. Not even in the technical implementation capacity, the easiest part of the project.
I saw another person at my last company who did absolutely nothing, but was VERY present in meetings and constantly battling other people who trying to improve stuff. Then you do `git blame` on the code-bases and you don't see their fingerprints ANYWHERE.
It was a problem throughout the company, to the point they introduced a ton of really strict agile processes to micro-manage points and work. Guess what? The bullshitters played that system successfully too.
It is common. And it is hard to detect from a management perspective. They don't know what ad-hoc meetings/reading/research/other work is happening, so it is hard to pin people down when they are not working.
I've actually mentioned this before in a previous comment[0].
> Are most of us secretly lying about how much we are working?
My motto is 3 good hours a day is an excellent day. You can't really realistically expect more from yourself. I consider anything over that a nice bonus.
> Do people regularly run into coworkers like me during their career and simply ignore it because they find it too awkward to criticize them? Have I just been incredibly lucky and every boss I have had is too incompetent to notice?
I have regularly run into people who do 0 work during their career, and I just tolerate them. One, because I have seen it enough to know it is normal. Two, because it isn't worth burning my social capital to attack that person. Like... what do I care? It's your manager's problem, not my problem. I just think it is hard to quantify.
0: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28069689