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Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#161
Slighty off topic; Is it me or is this whole era paralyzed by mental laziness? We have so much input and little dopamine hits that putting in hard work is easily forgotten, since you only have to look at your screen to be ‘pleased’. Curious if anyone some have opinions about this.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#162
don't work alone.

have a chat with a colleague and try to discuss the problem with him/her. maybe they already solved the issue, or have an interesting insight to move forward into the solution.

and be ready to have a working solution instead of a perfect solution.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#163

Slighty off topic; Is it me or is this whole era paralyzed by mental laziness? We have so much input and little dopamine hits that putting in hard work is easily forgotten, since you only have to look at your screen to be ‘pleased’. Curious if anyone some have opinions about this.

Some people say it's becoming impossible to get bored now. I'm trying not to follow my reflex of going to HN/Reddit/YT every time I feel even slightly bored but it's too easy. Eating breakfast - HN, going to sleep - YT, tj book is a bit boring - reddit. I'm 19 and although I didn't spend my childhood with a tablet, I've had a smartphone since I was 13 or so. I have no comparation but I think some part of me "went numb" because every time I feel a need of doing something I feed it with too many engaging but meaningless stories and the possibility of motivation just goes away. And since my phone is always with me it's like a permanent state. I just don't know anymore what it is like not to know what to do and suddenly feel motivated to do something. Instead I have to force myself to read that Haskell book I wanted to read for 2 months despite the fact that I just love (or had loved?) learning new things.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#164
> I grew up in a high pressure environment, where a lot is expected from you.

Same, and university and career too... I wrestle with the same problems.

Basically, I think it's reasonable to give up if you don't enjoy working on the problem or can't find satisfaction in it.

If externally motivated it's harder. Here you'll want to focus on techniques to force yourself to do things.

Otherwise check in with yourself regularly about what you want and why you're doing things. If you get alignment with your work then things come easy.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#165

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Very good advice, additionally, I would build habits that help you get things accomplished. For example, get up early every day, get ready and go directly to an area where the only thing you do is work on your tasks and you force yourself to accomplish at least a task while you are there. It's amazing how your point of view changes once you don't have to think about what you will do next and when you will do it. “Eig…

For me, the #1 thing was not going out drinking. I used to go out and consume alcohol 3-4 times per week and I had no idea what an energy drain it was until I stopped. It's been a whole new world since then.

I’m 37, I’ve had 1 year in my life around 33 where I went out to have beers in the evenings, 3-4 times a week. I never fully recovered my work ability.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#166
Reading through these posts there are many solutions, most of them are vague -- no clear method of implementation. I'll offer an actionable strategy which I have been using to progress from a depressed late 20something dependent on family charity, to graduating a competitive coding bootcamp and building prototypes for a startup.

The key is to exercise those proper faculties of mind -- a few simple exercises are cold showers, long-distance running, and meditation.

Cold showers have taught me how to overcome the initial difficulties; to continuously put oneself into a position of discomfort, then use powers of consciousness to develop acceptance is a powerful practice. There are various methods to implement this habit -- at the end of my shower, I set a timer for 5 minutes and progressively drop the temperature whenever I acclimate to the current state. The game I play is to spend the longest amount of time in the coldest water by dropping progressively quicker during those 5 mins. Challenging yourself is a reward within itself.

Where cold showers build mental strength in the domain of environmental changes, long-distance running builds endurance. As a side-effect, there is a strong correlation between mental health and cardio exercise, aerobic exercise generates BDNF which acts as a precursor for neurogenesis. Depressed people often have smaller hippocampi, and BDNF literally grows neurons in the hippocampus, where we store memory. There are many other evidence-based positive side effects. For implementation, I would suggest the Maffetone method, which teaches users to never push to hard, as it leads to burnout; but instead to progressively build up endurance by exercising at a comfortable rate. The only tool necessary is a heart-rate monitor, and any type of cardio activity can be substituted. His method is used successfully by ironmen and triathlete winners. It's a method to learn patience.

Samadhi is a state characterized as intense one-pointed concentration established through meditation. It is impossible to practice meditation without practicing those steps which lead towards a meditative mind. The yoga sutras of patangili provide a programmatic method towards this state. What is practiced by most popular western yoga is the practice of asana, or preparing the body for meditation. Following asana is pranayama, which is the regulation of breath through various practices. It is thought that breath control is the vector which enables us to manage the rest of our autonomic system, which enables our own internal state to control how we react to events -- the fundamental basis for freedom. It is difficult to discover teachers for these practices. Practically, I would suggest searching for Wim Hof's breathing method as a good introduction or entertaining exercise. Michaël Bijker is for those more serious.

Overall, implementing any one exercise should help you towards your goal, together they provide a strong basis. I've found scheduling to be effective for consistency. I would be lying if I did not mention I received help from a pharmaceutical as well. Having developed non-productive habits in the past, the pharmaceutical helped as a motivational catalyst, although medicine in relation to mental health is not magic, it requires effort and consistency to develop healthy habits.

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#167

You don't climb a mountain by thinking about mountains then making a huge epic trek in a couple of leaps. You climb a mountain by taking one step at a time. You have to take thousands of steps to reach the top of a mountain. Not every step is going to be perfect, or even pretty. Some will go in the wrong direction and you'll need to backtrack. Some will be missteps that might hurt. But if you keep making a concerted…

I like and often use the mountain metaphor myself.

Sometimes the path to the top includes some abrupt parts, akin to climbing a vertical wall. These are big efforts that requires long periods of concentration.

These are often followed by easy trails with no elevation, or even downward. This can be boilerplate that you can do without even thinking.

When you've reached the top, if you realize that the path you followed was not the shortest/easiest/most elegant one, know that your new muscle strength will make it orders of magnitudes easier to go down again and find new shortcuts. Clean up, delete unused parts, simplify, comment/document etc.

Finally, you will not even think of it as a mountain but just a small bump :)

Re: Ask HN: How do I overcome mental laziness?

#169
I had the exact same issue facing hard problems in my work. I noticed that my main issue was keeping focus. My solution was to introduce on distraction free 90 mins slot of work in the morning (my most productive time) to tackle the hardest problems. No e-mails, no phone and no de-railing to other topics. The results so far have been great. The inspiration came from Deep Work [1] by Cal Newport. The book describes the philosophy behind it.

[1]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00X47ZVXM/

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