I think a lot of startups are, frankly, ageist. They worry about "culture fit" from an older guy. There's a lot of twenty-something running around. They may also worry you don't want to put in the late nights and long hours they want due to perhaps family obligations, or that you may want more than they can afford to pay. If you're still on the market, we're hiring, and not ageist. I'm the CTO, 34.
They may also worry you don't want to put in the late nights and long hours they want due to perhaps family obligations Unless there's something broken, a system down, or a critical issue that needs to be fixed yesterday, I got news for you: I ain't staying late either. I'm 32 with a dog and a highly opinionated cat. Hire me, or don't. Plenty of other companies out there that respect work life balance and don't insis…
I have put in long hours in the following circumstances:
* I really, really loved what I was doing, and I just wanted to do more of it
* There was an emergency and I was needed to resolve it. I'm happy to do this if my org has a culture of post-mortems, root causing, and following through on fixes.
* Annual review/perf season. I'm a manager of engineers (as well as an engineer). The one thing I'm willing to bend my boundaries on is making sure my people are well represented at perf time. Ideally I'd get this done in work hours, but I can't always, but I can't let someone lose recognition for their work because I couldn't find the time to write them up positively for it.