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Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

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Re: Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

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I do care about what I say and everyone who responds to what I say. That doesn't mean you have to care a huge amount, but everyone deserves some care. The way you phrased it sounded a bit try hard. "I dgaf, I'm so cool. Look at me."

Lol. People don't like my opinion and idgaf. If they are that offended by it, I removed it even tho I think its stupid.

They aren't offended by it, you just sound like a tool doing it. No offense.

Re: Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

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Drank for the first 25 years of my career. High-functioning alcoholic, I guess. You've definitely heard of the products I have a bunch of code in, and the companies I worked for. I don't know how I managed getting blasted every night and still write all that code. As things got worse I started working for smaller and smaller companies, and wound up essentially jobless and alone and drinking off of my savings in a Sil…

I worked with a guy once who was a recovering alcoholic. This was a big dumb corp, and he'd been a manager, but went through the companies cobol boot camp and was a cobol programmer when I knew him. Apparently it was a situation of he had a lot of tenure at the company and it was that or start over somewhere else. Yeah, odd.

Anyway, similar to you, he'd built a life, had two sons, a wife. Only things weren't that rosey for him. This guy had no filter, he'd sometimes offer up fucked up stories from his childhood at weird times. At one point he went back to drinking and was really unreliable at work, his wife kicked him out. Around that time I moved on. About 6 years later I heard he'd committed suicide.

This always haunted me. I've worked with a few people who've committed suicide. What I have to say to you is; you matter, to your wife and to your family, and to you co workers, although they don't know it. Good luck and please seek help if you ever need it again.

Re: Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

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Can you talk a little more about "the prison of an office" and why you consider an office this way? You say that you're tired of taking orders, and I can relate to this... but do you feel so oppressed from above that you absolutely must be "butt in seat" at 9:00 AM Or Else Death? I felt this way when I was younger fresh out of university and not so much anymore, and I don't believe I've become Institutionalized to su…

I don't understand how people manage to be in an office with their boring-ass jobs from 9-5 Monday through Friday till eternity (excluding their measly 2-3 weeks of vacation). I honestly think most people lack consciousness. For one, it's boring, monotonous, and soul-sucking. Which might be manageable, except with commuting and such you're looking at 9 hours/day wasted, and the bulk of your mental energy drained. Add…

I found that after I had kids, 9-5 m-f is a vacation. You mileage may vary, etc.

Re: Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

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post #86

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[AA is controversial, I know] AA is controversial among a tiny minority of anti-religion internet blowhards. For the vast majority of reasonable folks, it really isn't. Glad to hear it has worked for you.

AA is controversial not only for it's religious content, but also because it's empirically both far less effective than it claims and less effective than alternatives. See, e.g, https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/04/the-irr...

Jesus, is there really a magical anti-alcoholism pill? Why isn't this more widely known? It could save many lives!

Re: Ask HN: What's your spectacular burnout story?

#165

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Lol. People don't like my opinion and idgaf. If they are that offended by it, I removed it even tho I think its stupid.

They aren't offended by it, you just sound like a tool doing it. No offense.

Which is the most dishonest way to try to insult someone so 10/10 on that.
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