Then I needed to host that WP instance somewhere. That was also a pain.
I decided last year to try and use Node/Express/Mongo for my backend instead and stay fully in JS land. But now I need to host a Mongo db. Instead of that, I tried Atlas for hosted mongo, but ....it feels like it's from corporate America circa 2004.
Then came Supabase.
I randomly came across it, gave it a try, and it's heaven. It's absolutely dead simple to get working (for my simple needs). It can work as a regular DB or as a realtime thing like Firebase.
Strongly recommend trying Supabase.