Lucky you. You got a phone call before just declining it! /sarcasm
Story time:
I was in London, on a multi-week vacation when my CapitalOne card got declined while trying to pay for dinner on the 3rd night using Apple Pay (for the contactless feature).
It wasn't an expensive meal.
There was no warning, no text-message, no phone call. I opened the CapitalOne app and it said my account is now restricted. I proceeded to call CapitalOne, and sit on hold, then get transfered a couple of times until there was a person who could flip the switch.
I paid for dinner, and my wife and I started back to our hotel. Half-way there, we stopped off at a Boots Chemist, and picked up some allergy medicine. Card declined again. I knew it was going to take 30+ minutes to deal with it, so I paid cash and we left.
When we got to the hotel, I had to call back, deal with the same multiple transfers to the person who could flip the switch. Then we would get 1 transaction through before it would get declined again. I eventually got a direct line to the guy who could flip the switch, and after the 5th time of me calling him, we spent a few hours investigating.
I have used this card in the UK for years on vacation. But increasingly merchants dislike the lack of pin, and needing a signature, so to be a good tourist, I decided to use it with Apple Pay, and that was apparently the combination that was killing my account.
The Apple Pay + UK card reader combination was apparently blanking out the CVV code for whatever reason, and while Capital One would allow a single transaction to fail that check, they would then suspend the account until a person verified the transaction was legit. My biggest gripe about this though was they did not even inform me each time it happened. So for the remainder of the trip I had to either dip the chip, and sign a receipt or pay a FX fee.
EDIT: Now that I'm thinking on it more, I think the reason the CVV was blank was because a CVV doesn't get used when your card is present. So I'm back to thinking this was a CaptialOne issue. They were seeing the transaction as a card-not-present transaction, instead of as a contactless transaction, at the time, I don't think they had contactless cards, so that might have not been a scenario they had accounted for.