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Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I doubt that you doubt it.

I think all three of you are wrong.

PYRRHONISM, n. An ancient philosophy, named for its inventor. It consisted of an absolute disbelief in everything but Pyrrhonism. Its modern professors have added that. – Ambrose Bierce, Devil’s Dictionary

Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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Luck. I was going to reply with a personality trait, but let's be honest, 90%+ of every success story is plain luck.

But the question was about personal growth. Bad luck more usually triggers/catalyzes personal growth, doesn't it? Makes you think, reassess.. So maybe it's luck to have so much bad luck. (Read the stories of the wisest, greatest, most..personally-grown - the most embiggened - they've had more than their share of bad luck.)

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I think sticking to things I start has contributed the most personal growth for me. I think for anything to have any effect on you, you have to stick with it for at least 6 months or more (though it definitely depends on each activity). In the last 2 years I have been able to lose 8kgs, increase my business, cure my chronic backache and become a lot happier using this one trick of sticking to things daily without fai…

Sounds basically like Benjamin Franklin's method, detailed in his autobiography. He ruled up a page with all the virtues he wanted to see in himself down the left side, days along the top, and putting a black spot for each virtue he'd lapsed in that day.

Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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A few different things: - Growing up with a maker dad and an artist mom. I would routinely come home from school and my Dad would be doing something like building a robot mouse trap with an IR tripwire, and my mom would be on the phone working connections to get a radio interview to talk about a new project. Nothing seemed out of bounds or too hard to try doing yourself. - Studying music, and learning that nothing is…

Sounds like amazing parents.

Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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Sleep, diet, exercise, and a means to reflect. Sleep: I think we undervalue the importance of sleep. This is the time when your body gets to improve itself. Without good sleep, your diet and exercise will be much less effective. Diet: Your mental and physical well being is a rolling average of the things you eat. Cheat days are fine; cheat weeks are not. As long as your diet is always trending in the right direction,…

The biggest thing that exercise gives me is the ability to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. That last rep sucks so bad sometimes but you push through which also gives a sense of accomplishment.

I would always give up quickly if things got hard in any part of my life. Pretty much just run away from my responsibilities because I hated feeling bad or stressed. Working out has indirectly made me more comfortable in those situations because it's okay to feel pain (emotional or physical) sometimes. Because of that, I've learned to just get things done with ASAP and, in the end, it's much less total pain.

Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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post #6

I think sticking to things I start has contributed the most personal growth for me. I think for anything to have any effect on you, you have to stick with it for at least 6 months or more (though it definitely depends on each activity). In the last 2 years I have been able to lose 8kgs, increase my business, cure my chronic backache and become a lot happier using this one trick of sticking to things daily without fai…

I love the "Streaks" mobile app for daily habit tracking. It's simple and clean.

Looks similar to "Loop", except Loop is ad-free and open source.

Re: Ask HN: What influenced your personal growth the most?

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I would say role models. I've always enjoyed reading biographies and biographical information about people with various qualities I admire. I won't tell you which people, lest a dozen cynics seek to educate me about those people's unforgivable atrocities against humanity.
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