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Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

This is a phenomenal comment.

What it ignores though is the interesting part, if the hiring manager knows of his illness. I'm quite right wing, but that's why imho medical costs should be socialized. But of course, there are many problems that come along with that.

I'm generally conservative too but this won't happen until we have tort reform (which won't happen so long as politics is governed by lawyers).

I heard someone say that health care is completely provided in Australia for about 2% of your gross pay because the leeches have been removed from the process ... is this true?

P.S. Leeches = anyone that inserts themselves into the process without adding meaningfully to the quality of care provided.

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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Another note: Don't you think it's worthwhile not down-voting every idea that hasn't become widely used? Certainly if I ever get cancer I hope that people throw every idea they even vaguely think might work, for me to consider, without people down-voting them for genuine offers of obscure ideas that might plausibly work. To downvoters: I'm mentioning this only because I'd try it myself in this situation. I am not cla…

> Another note: Don't you think it's worthwhile not down-voting every idea that hasn't become widely used?

Yes. Bullshit deserves to be downvoted and flagged. Every time someone discloses they have or possibly have cancer people come out of the woodwork pushing total bollocks.

"You got cancer because you're stressed"; "you can cure cancer with fasting"; "you can cure cancer by not eating sugar"; "you can cure cancer with this particular herb or spice"; "you can cure cancer with medidation and exercise".

It's fucking disgusting and I proudly downvote and flag this bullshit.

See also John Diamond's books about the things people said to him when he disclosed his cancer.

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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A question: Should the OP tell his new employer right now? Or hold off until down the line? OP: As far as your lump, dammit indeed. Good luck and beat that thing!

Unless it's something that prohibits you from doing your job (e.g. a paraplegic flight attendant), it's nobody's business but yours.

Think of it this way: that they hire someone else who thinks they're healthy doesn't guarantee they're hiring someone that stays healthy. In fact, they might just think they're healthy because they're less cautious and end up in a much worse spot than you.

Life happens. If the company is not equipped to deal with that, it's not your fault. It's part of running a business.

Besides, most of the problems we're talking about here are related to the shitty American healthcare system, not the business itself.

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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post #77

http://www.healthrestorationranch.com Mike has helped 100,s with same problem.

“Disease is natures’s effort to free the system from conditions that result from a violation of the laws of health." He should follow that up with: "I am basing this on absolutely nothing"

Alternative medicine.

"You know what alternative medicine is called when it's proven to work? Medicine."

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

#137
Well I can't help you on what's financially the best choice (I'm not in the US). But I might be able to give some suggestions on how to live based on my experience.

First off, don't care about other people. There is no reason to think about what effect it might have on your employer, or who gets screwed when you make certain decisions. If you end up dieing because your treatment sucks, you won't need to feel sorry. You really need to be selfish, the stakes are too high not to be.

That aside, what you said sounds very similar to what I had. When I was 15 I also discovered lump under my armpit, ended up being Hodgkin lymphoma. If that is what you end up having, you should be extremely thankful. First of all because if you need to get a cancer, that is the one you want (at least that's what they told me). But also, in this endeavor, you are probably the lucky one. At least in my case, the worst part was seeing what it did to my mother and brother. I knew exactly how good/bad I felt but they could only guess at it.

As to what to do, well this varies significantly from person to person. Some people I met in the hospital wanted to learn everything about the disease, why it occurred, what they could have done to prevent it, how they could of discovered it sooner, ... Other people socialized a lot in the hospital and talked to each other about chemo side affects, ... For me this all seemed like a waste of time since in 8 months or so I would be a "normal" person again. I tried to keep my life as close to normal as I could. I got to the hospital and left as fast as I could, continued to go to as many classes as possible, kept doing the same hobbies, meeting friends, ... So I would suggest, just do whatever makes you happy =).

Anyway, hope this is somewhat useful. Good luck!

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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I am sorry to hear, This is my 2 cents from a person who has seen atleast 5 of my family members fight cancer. First thing the only thing that kills cancer cells is Oxygen its the live giver, take in loads of oxygen, food that gives the maximum oxygen is Wheat grass juice ( you can get a shot at jamba juice) take it daily you will see phenomenal difference, remember Neil Armstrong has lung capacity twice that of norm…

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Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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post #42

The fact that this thread exists makes me want to move back to Europe. It's really hard, for someone who grew up with state-provided healthcare, to understand how dealing with an illness involves decisions about employment. To the OP: the system is deeply unfair, and you shouldn't feel bad for obtaining what in the rest of the civilized world is an unalienable right.

Whose health care system has contributed most to research and development of increasingly successful diagnostic tests and treatments for cancer?

But that should infuriate you!

America pays more per capita for their health system, and yet here's this guy struggling to know if he's going to be treated or not.

Cancer is a disease of mostly older people. They get treatment via medicaid / medicare. That "socialised" health care distorts US spending to the diseases of old age. It's certainly not US insurance that pays for that cancer research.

Re: Ask HN: I Have Cancer. What Should I Do?

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post #42

The fact that this thread exists makes me want to move back to Europe. It's really hard, for someone who grew up with state-provided healthcare, to understand how dealing with an illness involves decisions about employment. To the OP: the system is deeply unfair, and you shouldn't feel bad for obtaining what in the rest of the civilized world is an unalienable right.

Things have improved drastically in the past couple years. Small business insurance rates no longer depend on employee health costs, pre-existing conditions aren't a problem anymore, if you're not covered under an employer you can get a plan through the exchange, and if your income is low the premiums will be subsidized. It's basically moved in the direction of the French and German systems, except with for-profit insurance and without price controls on medical services.
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