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Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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Neither getting up at 5am or daily meditation are all that rare or difficult. And if you take perfection out of the equation, as you should, then aiming to do them 80-90% of the time makes it even easier. I’m a natural night owl, but I routinely (80-90% of the time) go to bed early and get up at 4am. It’s really not that hard.

> It's really not that hard. Based on the current research on chronotypes [0], you seem to be the exception, not the norm. '“If people are left to their naturally preferred times, they feel much better. They say that they are much more productive. The mental capacity they have is much broader,” says Oxford University biologist Katharina Wulff, who studies chronobiology and sleep.'[1] [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki…

I think your claim (and probably mine) is too broad. It sounds like most people have a fair degree of flexibility, and I'm skeptical about our depth of knowledge in this area. For example, this:

When they wake early, for example, night owls are still producing melatonin. “Then you disrupt it and push the body to be in the daytime mode. That can have lots of negative physiological consequences,” Wulff says, like a different sensitivity to insulin and glucose – which can cause weight gain.

I couldn't find the study where that came from, but I wonder how long it lasted. Even now, if I revert back to staying up late, it can take a few days of getting up early before it feels amazing.

All of which is to say that I suspect that genetics plays a role in our natural preferences, but our bodies seem remarkably adaptable to different lifestyles.

Also, I think it was probably unfair of me to say "it's not that hard", because it took me years to get to the point where getting up at 4am wasn't that big of a deal. In retrospect, the key is almost embarrassingly obvious: go to bed early (9p). I don't take melatonin or anything, but I've always had a really easy time falling asleep, so others might find that helpful in getting over the initial transition of early bedtimes.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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Hey man, there may be a LOT of things going on here, but I can relate. If I don't get my day STARTED by 6am (or so), I see it slipping away from me. Others below have alluded to it, also. Diet and exercise are important (but the world is jacked when it comes to 'exercise', pushing gyms and supplements and dumb sporting events. Honestly, just keep lights low at night before dusk, don't be on devices after dark, read o…

> Get up at 5am, go for a walk and get a coffee (not a sugar bomb - just a small coffee like your grandfather probably would do) and be back at 6:30a to start work. I never understand these suggestions of waking up at 5am, I, on contrary feel myself much better if I can enjoy a late dinner/Netflix with my wife after kids are in bed or going out with friends. Waking up at 5 am means you need to fall asleep at 9pm. It…

people are different when it comes to a good time to get up. what works for one doesn't work for another. some are naturally early birds, others late risers. personally i had a job for about two years that forced me to get up at 6am and i felt sleep deprived and miserable for the whole two years because even after all those months it still felt natural for me to go to bed after midnight.

this is also the case without screens; i used to attend a training camp a couple of years prior. up at 6am, morning sport, breakfast, nap, training, lunch, nap, training, dinner, cards then off to bed at ~10pm. after 2, 3 days i get used to it and start staying up longer until i'm back to going to bed at or after midnight and then sleeping through the morning sport.

i guess people are just naturally different when it comes to sleep times.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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* Don't follow a specific diet and don't exercise regularly *

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Honestly, this is the biggest red flag for me. Yes, you may have other personal/emotional/mental health things you want to get support for, but regular exercise can do absolute wonders for your overall well-being.

My advice: watch a couple youtube videos about navy seals -about how disciplined they are and the will power they develop to get up every day and attack the day during their training. Challenge yourself to get up early and do a good quality workout for about ~2 weeks straight, then re-evaluate how you feel. I bet you'll feel 5x better.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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try to analyze what you're doing when you're postponing your work.

what are you doing instead? what are you seeking out? it might give you an indication to what're you subconciously seeking

a lot of suggestions here about what it could be... maybe you're bored, maybe you're seeking socialization.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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* Don't follow a specific diet and don't exercise regularly * ------- Honestly, this is the biggest red flag for me. Yes, you may have other personal/emotional/mental health things you want to get support for, but regular exercise can do absolute wonders for your overall well-being. My advice: watch a couple youtube videos about navy seals -about how disciplined they are and the will power they develop to get up ever…

What's a good workout for a beginner w/o access to a gym?

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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It sounds like you're depressed, possibly you're in a rut. You should definitely exercise (I know, easier said than done). What's helped me? Going for an hour long walk everyday (I don't do it everyday like I ought to but even 3x per week has tremendous benefits). Walking is enough. Don't feel like you have to change your whole routine, just try walking 3x per week for two weeks. I guarantee that you'll feel better. After that, reassess and see if you need to add/subtract other stuff to/from your routine.

Other things to experiment with: Meditation, social life, meetups, weight-lifting, juicing, etc etc.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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* Don't follow a specific diet and don't exercise regularly * ------- Honestly, this is the biggest red flag for me. Yes, you may have other personal/emotional/mental health things you want to get support for, but regular exercise can do absolute wonders for your overall well-being. My advice: watch a couple youtube videos about navy seals -about how disciplined they are and the will power they develop to get up ever…

What's a good workout for a beginner w/o access to a gym?

I got into recreational gymnastics about a year ago to challenge myself and have really taken to simple body weight exercises with no weights... But people have different bodies and need to find what works for them.

Here is what i may do in 30-40 minutes in the morning: * stretch quick. * ab/core workout for 5-10 minutes. Then 2-4 rotations through the following: * hand stand hold against the wall. * air squats or power jacks. * push ups. * calf raises. * variations of pullups.

The only equipment i have is a pull up bar over a door frame.

Super simple super effective.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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> Stop eating processed carbs and sugar. If I could pick one of all advices you gave this is the one which I think has more impact. Free yourself from food slavery.

I think cardio edges our carbs by a little bit. If I am excising well, think marathon buildup.. extra carbs do not make me feel any different. Greasy and fried food gets me, but not carbs. If I am not exercising, almost any reasonable of carbs makes me feel terrible. Hard to just pick 1, but I do think exercise wins for me by a small margin over clean eating..

Sure, I don't mean it as radically avoid carbs, but by following this rule I'm much more conscious about the carbs I eat. Including mcdonalds fries.

Re: Ask HN: I'm a solopreneur and I feel demoralised

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Check this out . . . if you haven't already.

I think this could help. https://zenfounder.com/services/solopreneur/

Congratulations!

It's tough being a solopreneur.

One thing that helps me get started is setting up a task I really look forward to working on to be the first thing I work on after some warmups.

Warmups are tiny tasks that are quick and easy to knock out, I usually try to have 4 to 5 of these at the top of my trello board for the day. It literally warms you up to tackle more challenging work.

Start eating a better diet, if you drink soda/sweet coffee try switching to tea and more water during the day.

Since you work from home if you find yourself not getting things done stop. Spend some time with family, go for a walk, go for a bike ride exercise. There are many times during the day where you just get in a lull and aren't doing anything productive at the computer.

Service businesses are tough, you should check out StartupsForTheRestOfUs.com and start learning about building a product or SaaS. This can give you something to look forward to working on and help supplement your services revenue and replace it in the future.

Good luck hope things are going better next week.

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