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I get the diversity thing but depending on the small town you can get more than SF some times. My neighborhood in SF is 90% white. But the tech things rings true. However, my only counter is that having a strong community that has nothing to do with work is pretty cool too.
> My neighborhood in SF is 90% white White is not a culture. Skin colour is orthogonal with cultural diversity. Amsterdam is also 80-90% white but is incredibly diverse with all sorts of people from all sorts of places and backgrounds.
Let me refine by saying my neighborhood in SF is 90% white, Democrat voting, can’t-get-off-the-hedonistic-treadmill culture, love to talk about progressive ideals while voting for restrictive policies that hurt residents.
I lived in a swing state a long time ago and it was actually nice interacting with people from a lot of different backgrounds, none of which dominated the culture. You could go to a rave with some anarchist one weekend and go deer hunting with an evangelical Christian the next.