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Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

#101
- Go to bed early and develop a regular sleep pattern, and don't fool yourself with the myth about being a "night person", you are not a cat, you have just offset your sleep/wake cycle from lacking proper routine.

- Exercise regularly. Aerobic exercise(whatever that means for you) that you can maintain without develop injury or over-training will be your baseline. Endorphin is what you are after, since it provides a boost of immune system, better sleep, less anxiety and increased overall health.

- Be outside in the sun everyday, take a walk or sit and read a book.

- Cut out any consumption of large amount of drugs: alcohol, sugar, nicotine...

- Talk to someone about your worries and sprinkle some Zen in your life.

- Help someone else for no personal gain, but don't let it consume all your time.

- Understand that all things are transient, nothing is static, and trying to be eternally happy is impossible and the quest for such a thing will make you unhappy.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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It only gets worse as you get older. Stop building things where the royalties go to other people and start building things for yourself. A lack of belief in a future you want to be a part of contributes significantly. Go all in on what you believe in. You're at war, and the only thing that is true is that if we don't get to the singularity, your disease will eventually kill you or make your life so miserable that sto…

This is really bad advice to give someone with diagnosed depression. Do take medication if it is recommended, and be less hard on yourself - not more.

Nonsense. I don't want my talent to go towards making some rich guy richer, as I'm stuffed full of pills so that I'm just aware enough to keep coding.

You may not realize the life sentence that serious depression is. Or the pseudo science that backs these pill pushers.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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Go and see a doctor. Seriously. Even without this, figure out how to do things you want in life even if you don't feel like it. I don't know about some of the other advice. Eating habits don't seem to work for me, and following a strict diet makes things worse because I spend a lot of time worrying about food if I do that. Exercise? I've never found any exercise I enjoy when I'm content, let alone trying to get the e…

Can you comment on your post-MDMA weeks? Why/how were they an eye opener? Any more detail would be interesting to learn about.

It was like someone massaged my thoughts or rinsed off my brain. Maybe it is more like a reboot. In any case, my brain felt good. So many thoughts that were negative just didn't have the same sort of affect on everything else. My worries had a different sort of framing on them. I could look at some of these things and make a reasonable decision about them. Some things, sure, I need to work on - but I was a bit more motivated to actually do so. Other things, I was able to make a decision not to be bothered by them. Since I had some time without so much mental stress, it wasn't so difficult to teach myself that those things were a bit ridiculous. I had a better sense of personal well-being and self-love that has stuck around.

I imagine doing this with an actual therapist would be even more helpful. I completely understand why it seems like a miracle for mental health in drug trials.

I've done other sorts of drugs in my life - lsd, for example. While they shaped some of my perception and thoughts about the world and life, nothing was quite like this. I couldn't describe myself as unhappy before, but now I'm really content with life.

I should now mention that I would urge folks to have caution. I can understand how folks would get addicted to it. And there is a risk of simply doing it too often and actually having the opposite effect. This is something to do occasionally, not every weekend or even once a month. The most profound change was the first time: I've done it since then, and it while (for me) it reinforces the things I learned the first time and still feel mentally refreshed the next day, it simply isn't as large of a change.

Another small sidenote: I've done it with my spouse. It also strengthened our relationship as well simply because we basically sat and talked positively for hours.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

#104
Mindfulness and Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy did it for me. You need a framework for challenging your wrong thinking. Learn to take a universal perspective, root out the self pity and resentment, and foster responsibility for yourself. I found a therapist who worked me through REBT and connected me to a fantastic meditation teacher. Obviously you need to take care of your body too, with diet, exercise and above all, the most stringent of sleep hygiene habits (probably no drugs or alcohol either, sorry). Put me 5 hours of bad sleep a night and I'll be suicidally upset about "everything" at the end of the week.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

#105

Being consistent, healthy, and regular with a number of things. Attending professional talk therapy and taking prescribed dosage of psychiatric medication. In therapy they will probably mention the following as well: Sleep schedule (same bedtime and wake up time each day, long enough, restful, no screens in bed) Exercise (helps with sleep and stress management, almost any routine aerobic or strength done to exhaustio…

> Moderation or abstinence from social media, news, and most ad driven media

Amen to that: garbage in, garbage out

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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post #88

Lots of good stuff in this thread, but I'd like to emphasize seeing a therapist (not necessarily a doctor, who is probably a lot more trained in medical procedures than emotional well-being). From experience, there is something very powerful about working out your problems in relation to a person that cares about your well-being. As for the stigma of therapy (which I think is thankfully starting to erode), don't worr…

What makes you think a therapist actually cares about your well-being? they don't even know you, and they only want to know you so they can get paid. Doesn't seem like a healthy relationship if you ask me. Basically this is the primary reason i never seriously consider seeing a therapist.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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If your depression is serious, and it's preventing you from living your life, or if you're feeling suicidal, see a doctor or call a hotline. Now. If you have mild depression, or want to not get depressed in the first place, I'd recommend the following: Do exercise, do it outside if at all possible. Even light exercise like going for a walk is better than none. Don't take your phone. Turn off and shut away your electr…

> Under no circumstances have your phone by your bed. Buy an alarm clock if need be. Disrupting sleep is the best way to get depressed quickly. I hope a lot of people are making a correlation between their friends who have recently had young children, and why they often tend to look tired, miserable and depressed.

This chart about effects of life events on happiness is quite informative - https://ourworldindata.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/Life-e...

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

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post #74

Get out in the sun every morning for 20 mins Drink lots of water Stop jerking off incessantly Do this for a week. Let me know how things go.

I like this list, it addresses something most don't.

>Stop jerking off incessantly ?

yeah. there is even this entire #nofap thing. I find it helps with energy level.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

#109
I would not do prescription drugs (only after honestly trying everything else.)

Supplement magnesium (so key to health and so neglected). Try it, you won't regret it, unless you have some psychological barrier to supplementation.

Supplement gelatin before sleep (which contains a lot of glycine, there are studies showing it regulates serotonin and dopamine. In my family's experience it is amazing for helping you sleep. Also it is the reason why in my country broth's are seen as relaxing before sleep: they contain lots of glycine)

Look into lifting weights, I took it up after being depressed for months after my last breakup and it has been life changing. It has so many benefits from increased metabolism, growth hormone, testosterone.

Spend time in the sun frequently

Do something that makes you afraid/thrill. For example, I took motorcycle riding this year, hard to be depressed when your heart rate goes up. It might seem temporary but it sets the beginning for change.

Re: Ask HN: What are the best hacks to fight depression?

#110

- Go to bed early and develop a regular sleep pattern, and don't fool yourself with the myth about being a "night person", you are not a cat, you have just offset your sleep/wake cycle from lacking proper routine. - Exercise regularly. Aerobic exercise(whatever that means for you) that you can maintain without develop injury or over-training will be your baseline. Endorphin is what you are after, since it provides a…

As a person with DSPS, I don't agree with your first statement. Some people are night persons and can't help it.
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