Ask HN: Has PG written any essays about "people who shouldn't do startups"?

I would agree, in the end it is ultimately about happiness and joy. However, if you are inherently seeking personal evolution (which is what joy IS), 9 to 5 will do a lot to suppress that.

Unless you happen to be paid for research or bleeding edge development on some cool project, building webapps for other people day in and day out; or doing maintenance work day in and day out isn't a terribly creative expression IMHO. (Creativity IS spirit, it is an aspect of the intellect - there is regurgitation and then there is creativity)

I resigned from my 9 to 5 (as a systems engineer and web application developer) to pursue my self-education and a startup idea. While I almost did not hand in that letter of resignation, I did, and I am loving my life.

Mind you, I am 22, have 0 debts, 0 dependents, and am willing to live out of a tent and work from the library till my projects begin to generate an income (yes I am a lone wolf).

If you feel fear, that is an excellent indicator that you are staring right at your 'edge'. Edge being that boundary in which you, as a man (I'm assuming you're a man), find your present state of consciousness expanding into; pushing that edge pops the bubble and you begin expanding into that new boundary. The phallus is an excellent symbol, as men (speaking for myself and many that I know, I apologize for the sweeping generalization) we feel purposeless and mediocre when we are not constantly PUSHING, SPEARING, HUNTING, PENETRATING.

Find your edge and lean into it (don't jump off the edge), push push push. Use the masculine aspect of your psyche (intellect, hunter, etc...) to challenge yourself and your edge; you can even do this within the context of a 9 to 5 job, however, you will find at some point the typical 9 to 5 structure of serving your time to someone else is far less appealing than serving it to the greater self that is your life.

Hacker News is probably the last place someone will get advices about not starting a startup. It was named "Startup News" to begin with, hence its Pro-Startup audience.

The reason why people here push others to do a startup is because they are doing it themselves and find it quite rewarding. Not necessarily a monetary reward, but a personal satisfaction. If they see potential in someone, then it is normal to ask "Why not give it a try?".

Also I do not believe anyone ever left their extremely satisfying job because commenters push them to do so.

Apparently 20 venture capitalists told the Skype team they were not going to fund them. They were all wrong to the tune of 3B dollars and 10 millions simultaneous connection as of this writing.

This is why I am still confident PG or any investors can make a good judgment about who should start, but not who should not.

But I'd add one note of caution: hang out with people you want to emulate, even if you do a piss-poor job of emulating them.

If you want to learn chess, hang out with chess-players. If you want to learn writing, hang-out with writers. The outstanding members of these communities will always kick your ass when it comes to execution -- that's the nature of large communities.

The real question is whether you can be brutally critical of your work and life and strive to be a top notch player while still having a happy and joyous lifestyle. Some people can. Some people can't. If you can't, then your options become more limited.

I look at it this way: whatever I'm doing, there are lots of people much better than me at it. There are lots of value systems both for and against what I'm doing. It's up to me to chose a value system and honestly learn from the masters to really enjoy life. If I do a half-assed job of either I end up miserable and unhappy.

Hope that made some sense.

I think public school and other bureaucratic institutions help shape people in the direction of expecting bureaucracy as the "norm"....I mean, it seems to me it's a culture and a mindset and a lifestyle and if you grow up with it, it's more comfortable than being out on a limb by yourself. My sons were homeschooled for a long time and they are a lot less intimidated than I am about plans to become entrepreneurs. I have long been torn between wanting to strike out on my own and wanting more conventional success. I'm wired (and probably also trained) to want the perceived societal approval that goes along with making it in a large bureaucracy (big company, federal government...etc) But I just don't fit in.

I currently have a corporate job and that has given me some degree of satisfaction that "Yes! I can make it on those terms!" But I've also been languishing in an entry-level job which doesn't begin to compare to the kind of recognition/success I've had in other (non-monetary) endeavors. I've been very torn between wanting to pursue a career at the company and wanting to strike out on my own. But recent events at work have convinced me that striking out on my own is the more risk-averse path. I can't control what the folks in charge at the company are doing and recent developments concern me. I've also seen that working a regular day job doesn't buffer me from the vagaries of the market as much as I thought it would. It just gives me less control over how to meet the latest challenges than I would have if I ran the show.

So I believe I will end up out there on my own. But I believe it will be a logical progression, step by step, rather than a radical departure.