Students starting after 40 is actually fairly normal at the Native American colleges. Our TCU (tribal college or university) has a lot of almost independent work classes to support this. If anyone needs a suggestion to help single mothers, find instructors willing to teach remote / zoom classes starting a 9PM.
Ask HN: How did you start higher education after 40?
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#12I went straight to work and didn't get to college until 41/42. I'm working on my undergrad and plan to continue to my masters. I've found it incredibly rewarding for two main reasons. First, since I have a career already, I'm free of the pressure to go to school for career purposes and can focus on something I enjoy, which also provides immense value to what I'm doing every day (I chose philosophy, much more relevant…
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#14Context: moving to a new city with my wife and dog for a 1 year masters.
First of all, I absolutely loved it, particularly the course and the study. Getting up every morning with the main goal being learning is magnificent. My main piece of advice is that this is (in my experience) an excellent thing to do.
I've taken a whole new and highly satisfying path with my work since. All in all it's been one of my better life choices.
I was initially worried I'd struggle to keep up with my peers, based on the assumption they'd be more into the academic mindset, brighter and more energetic. Quite the opposite, I was pretty much top of my class.
I found I was able to use a lot of unexpected stuff from my career, and that treating it like a 9 to 5 made it easy to organise my work and get through the material.
You'll find some frustrations. I particularly hated the rigid course structure, and didn't see why I had to put up with modules I found irrelevant to my learning goals. YMMV depending on your course, but it's worth really kicking the tire on the non-optional stuff.
My favourite courses were hands down the optional stuff I was taking from PhD programs and other departments. My core stuff sucked for the most part.
It was also a little tough socially. I had course mates I really liked and respected, but most were in their twenties. I'm a happily married, mostly sober guy. We all had a very different idea of what a good time looks like. Probably different on a PhD program.
The lecturers will be your age or younger. I had a few good nights hanging out with them, but that was rare.
All in all, I wasn't that bothered with the social life because I was far too into the study to notice most of the time, but my wife (who was working remotely) found it hard.
I hope you go for it. It was an amazing experience for me.
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#15I went straight to work and didn't get to college until 41/42. I'm working on my undergrad and plan to continue to my masters. I've found it incredibly rewarding for two main reasons. First, since I have a career already, I'm free of the pressure to go to school for career purposes and can focus on something I enjoy, which also provides immense value to what I'm doing every day (I chose philosophy, much more relevant…
You know what's relevant and interesting to you and what's not.
Re: Ask HN: How did you start higher education after 40?
#16I did it a bit younger, 35, but a few of the same principles would apply. Context: moving to a new city with my wife and dog for a 1 year masters. First of all, I absolutely loved it, particularly the course and the study. Getting up every morning with the main goal being learning is magnificent. My main piece of advice is that this is (in my experience) an excellent thing to do. I've taken a whole new and highly sat…
I was a lecturer of CS, and the (very rare) older students were the most interesting to interact with.
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#17I'm just finishing a masters, it's been very enjoyable but definitely a challenge to balance education, work, and family. It's not just the hours of work to be done, the biggest challenge for me has been the pieces of work that need to be done on specific days at specific times, like one-off lectures, workshops, and so on, where I've had to say to my kids I can't take them places or play with them that day.
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#18I got a Master’s without ever having a Bachelor’s starting when I was well over 30. Feel free to email me if you want to know anything. If you already have a successful career in a non-credential field it’s unlikely getting a vanity credential like a taught Master’s will do much for you, unless it’s a finishing school proof of class habitus like an MBA. A Ph.D. like an MBA is good for changing fields and perhaps soci…
I think students with experience are great for courses, and applications from these sorts of candidates look great amongst piles of identikit young over achievers.
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#20I did have a 4 decade career as a programmer, but who knows what might have happened if I had taken the time mid-career to do the doctorate.