Don't want to sound negative, but there needs to be at least some value proposition. An employer isn't going to be super impressed if the pitch is "I'd like flex hours, training, open to anything, gimme gimme gimme". Everyone is "willing to learn"; the difference is who talks the talk and who walks the walk. She needs to have some sort of target role and be at least able to demonstrate passing familiarity with some p…
This is spot on.
I'd recommend signing up and completing a relatively well-known coding bootcamp.
Edit to add, in 20 years a lot has changed outside of just specific CS skills:
Cloud collaborative suites, conferencing systems, Slack/MSFT Teams, JIRA, git, just to name a few.
20 years ago, I was at my first role out of college--we used Outlook, MSFT VC++ 6.0, VSS, and AOL Instant Messenger.