Why would you waste years there if you didn't like it? The only way you'll know is if you try it. I came to the US years ago from the EU in a similar way, and have been here ever since. The biggest downside is that if you do like it and want to get a green card, it can be very difficult, which is depressing. If you can get a green card, you can work for whoever will have you, and there's no law that says you can't ha…
Thanks for your perspective. My understanding is that through an internal transfer visa it's feasible to receive a Green Card, especially as an EU citizen. I'm actually eyeing NYC, just because I'm really intrigued by the perceived diversity and culture, and it being the cultural epicenter of the Western world. May I ask which place you chose?
I live in the mid-west. Most of what I said in my previous comment is probably not very applicable to NYC though!