The question did make me think, whether there's a small part that supports the stereotype(?) of "smart" people, or those working in IT/tech, having less empathy and emotional consideration. Kindness can be seen as unnecessary or even harmful sugar-coating..
Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
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Re: Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
#12Life lesson: People have hated on new ideas in every community since the dawn of time. Hacker news is not special in that regard. Just learn to deal with it by finding conviction in your ideas.
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#13Re: Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
#14My theory is that communities like HN and StackOverflow are a magnet for very smart people with a very direct style of communication. Yes, they sound sassy or snarky but most have no intention to be mean. They just lack most of the brain circuitry to refrain from comment or beat around the bush.
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#15Re: Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
#16The more active HN users, with the support of the moderators, are quite vigilant about downvoting or flagging nasty comments.
Can you give any examples of nasty or mean comments that appear high up in the comment thread and/or without being faded or flagged?
The whole idea of Show HN is to encourage people to build interesting things and get feedback to help them improve their project and/or skills. So, constructive criticism should be welcomed whereas meanness should be weeded out any time it appears.
If you're seeing mean comments in Show HN posts, you should flag and downvote those comments and consider reporting them to the moderators at hn@ycombinator.com.
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#17Re: Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
#18I don't want people to be sad or hurt either.
Sometimes it looks like something is opportunistic or scammy. In that case you flag it. If something seems clueless and doesn't seem to have a lot of work or thought behind it I hope people want to help when they level harsh criticism. In these cases people need direction and it's a case where guidance or mentorship might help. It's so important to do this with care.
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#19[1] http://www.apa.org/monitor/feb06/connection.aspx
[2] https://techcrunch.com/2017/12/17/learning-to-embrace-confli...
Re: Ask HN: Why the Hacker News community is always hating on new ideas?
#20I think your premise is flawed.