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This is very unsettling comment for me. I have participated in same behavior but in the tech industry. I joined my managers at strip clubs for lunches, I introduced fresh grads and…

Lockdown gave me opportunity to connect and reconnect with a lot more people than ever before. I am married and naturally introvert. But I felt I have never been this social before…

I am doing some part-time consulting, dev work only. Would love to network with other part-time consultants. DevOps is my weak spot and would love to send that work to someone who …

Just to give a different perspective, it is unlikely they will do anything. You may talk to a lawyer but I would not stress too much about it.

As an introvert, I really enjoyed it. I do love bars and miss going there but not a big deal. We had tons of happy hours on Zoom. Yes Zoom is not perfect replacement for in-person …

This is one reason that I create new account on each service every few months or until my cookies expire. I never remember or save passwords.

Worked in gas station, tons of people stop just to use restrooms.

Check with your employer and see if they have EAP. Use free EAP sessions to interview enough therapists until you find one that clicks with you. I just started this journey. I was …

Dream On by Areosmith

This describes me, sort of. I feel more and more lack of control over my personal life. My parents have become demanding and mean as they have gotten old. My wife wants to get a bi…