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Thanks, I appreciate it.

I'm in a similar position but figured out how to work out last year. it's not a panacea, but working out is quite fun and is a great skill. I never had a personal trainer, but the …

(Non-technical skill) To live with ambition. Depression is a strange thing. In my case, the causes are plainly visible to me or any passer-by: I don't have much in the way of conne…

Thanks, this is really practical advice. The consistency is difficult; for reasons not (fully) understood to me, I often isolate myself after a mounting internal pressure, describe…

Thanks for the suggestions, I'll check them out. > I highly recommend the book "To Sell Is Human" that reframes "sales" as something more, i.e. convincing a child they need to brus…

I'm having a hard time. I lack the skills to sell myself. I have a hard time communicating, even this post. It feels like I'm looking through 100x zoom, I can't find a clarity of m…

My ex was on antidepressants which had a huge impact on her life. If she missed her meds or (god forbid) was late on her prescription, it was terrifyingly bad. Orthogonally, she al…

Backpacking was nice. As for nature, my town is in the thick of it, so I'm alone in nature quite a lot. That's one reason I return, I really miss it in the city. I've been in fact …

The issue is deeper, I think. When I go to software meetups, I feel bitter. I used to have friends in technology, but most of them I cut off without a word, and those that reach ou…

Throwaway, to do away with the polite fiction that I usually present. Kicking around on a piece of ground in your hometown / Waiting for someone or something to show you the way At…