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So is it disrespectful to want to gift someone a meal? I don’t understand why it has to be so black and white. Also the consent thing really sounds weird. Do you honestly go around…

It might not be a popular opinion but all the comments about cultural differences, or needing to be careful with communication seem wrong to me. Someone offering you a gift to pay …

No. If the only way you can manage is via micromanagement then you shouldn’t be a manager, end of story, period. The bar is far too low for managers already. The technical, communi…

I want to point out two additional observations. 1. There are a decent amount of software engineers or programmers whom literally aged at the perfect time to organically learn thes…

Accountability via trainer is a good option. Eventually the habit will stick and then you can pocket the money if money is important to you. The low/no money option is to tether an…

There are a couple different definitions of failures Mechanical failure - your form is being compromised, usually induced by muscular load Throughput failure - you could maintain f…

Maybe this is a bit close-minded to say. Even with the evolution of Ruby on Rails and adding more rich feature sets, I wouldn’t recommend it as an out of the box Webapp BECAUSE upg…

I spotted at least three typos in your response so I stopped reading. Maybe spelling is hard for them or English isn’t their first language.

So there’s a few really good resources on what we would now call minimalistic training. Most people who go to the Gym do not need to squeeze out every ounce of progression. Unlike …

Most threads cover anecdotal experiences and the summary is that many different strategies work. I’m gonna go ahead and mention what I haven’t seen almost any thread say. Which is …

Accountability is a core tenant of Christianity. In the end you are accountable for everything you say and do, or don’t do. There’s bound to be conformity in the way people grow or…

People have left churches for a plethora of reasons, many of which stem from the church itself being corrupt. But moreover, as you mentioned people want a sense of community withou…

What I’ve learned reading many of the comments on threads and most of the article is really just to keep your mouth shut. You can comfort people in loss without saying a word. Your…

I work on similar sized teams, I introduce my PRs as stacked so they are extremely consumeable in very small bite-sized code changes and build on the last one reviewed.

But it is. It’s because people who ‘try’ their whole lives yo-yo diet or crash diet and that’s 1) unsustainable 2) extremely likely to result in more long term weight gain 3) very …

What doesn’t make sense about your statement is that CICO evangelists don’t claim that appetite or that satiation isn’t a problem. One of the best examples I know of is Greg Doucet…

Satiety is subjective however it is widely accepted that foods high in fat can be more satiating. Today the relevant case is Keto diets where replacing your carbohydrate intake wit…

Exactly. In one of the parenting books I read it stated that we are inviting our child into our life, not the other way around. We already know what happens when parents make their…

Many people gave you advice and said loss of your personal life. Invite your kids into your life. I like video games so I offer to play them with my son. I like movies so I find on…

Ah I see you haven’t spent countless hours looking at the management console cost breakdown because management says “our cloud spending is too high”, to then read the highest cost …

There was a miss in the expectations from the beginning. “I was hired as junior and I’m expected to contribute from the off;” That’s language for being setup to fail. Anyone who hi…

Also I’ll always hate ActiveAdmin for the rest of my life.

I still use Backblaze for this kind of stuff.

Ruby code based that I’ve worked on that were a mess had nothing to do with review or guidance and everything to do with delivering as quickly as possible. It’s inherently a part o…

Two that I highly recommend 1. Subversive Sabbath by A.J. Swoboda 2. Garden City by John Mark Comer * caveat they are both frameworked in Christian principles but the practical ste…