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People learn in a variety of different ways, and I'm also a developer who always prefers a reference manual over learn-by-example techniques. You may not be one of those developers…

Yes! And if you're so worried about how "technical" you'll sound when asking for feedback (which you may or may not get - nobody's entitled to give it), you also miss out on the po…

You're making a lot of assumptions that may not be correct in your reading, because they certainly weren't explicitly stated: in particular, that agpen is a woman (not a given from…

There are plenty of bars where, if that's how drunk people act, and the bar staff has any sense, then the drunk people get kicked out. The drunk people get kicked out because it's …

I think what agpen is trying to say is, "Statements like this are offputting to some people [women] who want to participate in tech." That's going to vary by the individual, but ac…

So well said. When people don't take you seriously, clever hacks are the next best solution. The "What She Really Said" IRC bot story reminds me of this as well.

In my experience the decrease in performance can be felt both short-term (the classic example of students taking a standardized test) and long-term. It also doesn't necessarily mea…

The lack of compassion here demonstrated by people who clearly have not even tried to empathize with the experiences of those with stereotype threat is disheartening. It's a phenom…

Being able to label that thing that's been interfering with my ability to get my work done is definitely a productive thing. But I also think there's another, far more useful purpo…

> It was more of a general remark, since a lot of times the talk of gender equality is thinly veiled advocacy for mandatory gender quotas. Really? Honestly, the only people I see t…

Who used the term "sexist"? Not mjg, and the BBC article only mentions it in terms of the ensuing debate. I have no doubt that mjg avoided using it, in part, because people seize u…

I think you're missing the point. It doesn't matter whether or not I like big boobs, or whether or not I like childish humor. If I'm interacting with people in a professional or co…

> some women say that even small things like these can wear you out eventually, but I don't know. "Death by a thousand cuts", and yes, it's very real, and yes, this (and the result…

Exactly. What a depressing array of responses here. This is precisely why this needed attention.

As one of the commenters on the OP mentioned, live-tweeting is often used as a means of note-taking, and much like the commenter in question, I find it's crucial if I want to stay …