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If that's your experience then that's your experience. Mine is different. I validate your experience, and see it as true. I do the same for my own.

It appears that you're defining masculinity in and of itself as toxic. Masculine and feminine function as yin and yang, as dualistic complements. The masculine is simply structure,…

> The masculine gender role is extremely narrow, and if you deviate much from it, society will punish you. > As a man seeking a female partner, if I want to be a homemaker who teac…

I feel you bro. I've felt that same way and I have empathy. You have solid points and a valid perspective. You could also really use an attitude adjustment. We're here as a society…

To become conscious of all things a person must look for that which they are unconscious of rather than focusing purely on that which they are already conscious of. Most people pre…

+1. Personal roots always lead to the environment around a person. How someone responds plays a role in the result, but that absolutely should not obscure the fact that the circums…

It's not just you. I feel this way too. My personal values don't align with those of the industry. Plenty of people feel this way. Lots of them make a career change. Find what moti…

Heavily agreed. Our psychologies are becoming unrooted from our bodies' physical needs. Years of evolving towards the mental stimulation we seek these days is detaching us from our…

It is indeed a difficult balance to strike between keeping things cohesive and keeping them from becoming an echo chamber. There is something to be said for allowing "flamebait". W…

You have adapted your emotional processing towards the belief that work/financial success supersedes all else. This belief, and the set of beliefs underneath it, are reasonable, th…

The author explains it well IMO. Mentally computing an appropriate response to present to another human takes energy. The more different that human than you, the more energy. There…

Humans are fundamentally meant to interact and collaborate with other humans. Technology has obscured this by empowering us each to be resourceful alone. In the long term, we indee…

I haven't read this book, but I intuit that its point is that we're to awaken to the fact that all our industrial contrivance is to blame for all our misery. This deeply clicks wit…

Motives can be acted upon in many modes. Also > Marianne Bellotti the author is a woman.

You lot have a bit to learn about leadership. It has much less to do with code than you would think. A leader of a technical squad needs enough technical knowledge to properly cont…

Agreed. At this point in 2020, this much text for this elementary of a morality problem is a waste. I was really hoping for something more earth shattering than how humans have a h…

Semi funny that this exchange is kinda like proof of why JS catches the hate it does.

Agreed. This is indeed how it works. Changes in company culture trends somewhat lend to the perception of newer programmers that they hold competency beyond what they do, which con…

> If 90% of your insight into social interactions comes from clickbait social media sites selecting the most egregious stories and videos from around the world, of course you're go…

Tech is bad because our hypothesis of "nature will help us adapt to our disregard for foresight" is proving false. Across the board: economic, social, manufacturing, education, env…

> How curious to know that it's all in the brain rather than a psychological cause such as anxiety I'm not sure this model of thinking is fully correct. In a way, it's like saying …

My experience matches this to a tee. Engineers who take initiative and ownership are the ones most likely to know the function of the revenue generator's vital organs and how they …

Some may consider velocity to be part of the problem's domain considerations while others may not. If you consider that part, then Next is a great choice if you are novicely advanc…

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